I want to try and speed up the initial stages here, perhaps entering into a relationship with a girl from work (we both work at a bar, very laid back environment, not extremely professional, neither is boss)
Firstly, a quick rundown of important points:
- I've known her for just over a month now
From early on I had a suspicion thats she was into me
Went out one night with her and friends, she got very drunk but was all hands and arms over me and we made out several times.
Her friend told me at the club that she was into me
Since then, no sort of escalation or even mention of that night, other than how she shouldn't drink so much again (due to getting thrown out of club, and not remembering me driving her home)
She seems somewhat withdrawn and less open at work, and in person. When we aren't together she will usually text me, starting a conversation, or 'like' my status on Facebook, typical indications.
Lately she has been commenting on how she is not herself lately, feeling down etc, always over text. but won't tell me what it is. I was supposed to be going out with her tonight after work, but it was pretty late and she had work early, so she said she'd miss it, at the last second. she then later text me saying she wish she'd gone and that she was wide awake and couldn't sleep.
How can I somehow escalate this situation faster, through use of kino attraction in the work place, and are there any other techniques I could make good use of here?
Thanks for your input (if any) guys, I know new posters can be frustrating to answer, but I am gonna be sticking around
Peace!