So a bit of background; at my job in a mall there's a girl across the mall that I constantly talk to/have to look at. We hung out once before and while I thought it was a date-she didn't. Ended fairly awkward, still continued talking and whatever. Fast forward a month or two later when me, a co-worker, his girlfriend, and this girl from the mall go out for drinks. I must have redeemed myself or shown some alpha characteristics, as by the end of the night me and this girl ended up having sex(I was hammered, she was sobre).
The day after at work it was awkward, but we ended up texting and talking, but the vibe I got was, she had a great time, and didn't consider it a mistake(which I asked), and would hang out again, but not to for reasons of hooking up(that's what she said). She also told me she had ex-issues, and can't chill this week, or the weekend.
Where I am at now, is personally I guess I like this girl, and at the very least want to bang her again/hang out in a date format, and see where it goes. At work I've tried being slightly dickish/smartass, and not looking at her(it's really hard not to because of the position of the stores, and where I'm located)....but I also want to know if there's a chance this is going to happen again..how can I go about doing this?
I'm not a fan of canned routines, and my texting game is basically non-existant. Some how the stars all lined up that night we chilled when I got laid, and I want to re-create that success. How do I level with her? Do I ask her out straight up by text? in person when I see her at work? Ask her if she sees this going anywhere? Anyway to address this ex-issue? Or at the very least get some closure? I'd rather know that I should move on ,or have something to say if she brings up the ex, or get a straight forward objective answer from her
Thanks for any and all replies guys
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