Guys, I'm seriously learning a ton since I started posting on here 3 weeks ago. Since then, I gamed 4 HBs that have shown IOIs - 1 HB7, 2 HB8s, and a perfect 10.
I am looking for a LTR, so the HB7 (who has a weird personality) isn't too high on my list. The 2 HB8s are in the bag, but I haven't been able to figure out the 10 unfortunately.
She's in my middle circle of friends, and we can be considered as friends/acquaintances. Here's what happened:
D1: Met at club
- I do some solid DHVing
- showed *some* IOIs
- texts me day after to invite me to her friend's bday party (D2)
D2: Met at friend's party
- showed a lot of IOIs
- we went to eat and shared a cab, but self-invited AFC decided to tag along
- no escalation at all
- I text her during the week to try to set something up, but she flakes (seemingly genuine).
- A week later, she texts me inviting me to her bday party that's a month later
- I ask her to come to a going-away party for a mutual friend (D3)
D3: Met at party, then to club
- barely any IOIs until she gets drunk at the club, and she goes all out with active IOIs
- I escalate but I don't know if she remembers
- she texts me the night of at 4am to ask if I got home safe
- I text her 2 days later, she responds enthusiastically but with LONG wait times
- and nothing has happened since
Honestly, what would you do at this point? It looks like her interest has died down, and I can attribute that to my own lack of flirting. What would you say is the proper step2, step3, and step4 in order to develop a LTR with her?
Thanks!