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| Author: | Frediniho [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 10:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Am I going mad?! |
OK, so I'm new around here, and I thought I'd go straight in - as there's this one girl who has been on my mind a lot. Until reasonably recently I had very little confidence with women, or in anything in my life. But I have experienced a period of rapid transition - I can talk to most people and have been doing exceptionally well with women. My chat and as a result my understanding is better. I have even been giving other men casual advice with what to do with women - advice which has worked. However, despite all this for the whole year I have really had this one girl in mind. I struggle to get as excited around other girls as I do about this one. She is fantastic for me. We started off very slow, I could hardly talk to her because of my shyness - she had a boyfriend then too. MONTHS PASSED AND WE NEVER SPOKE, but we've been in the same classes and I've chatted to other girls. The way she is is just mesmerising. But since I hit a spike of confidence I have been chatting to her on Facebook after a hesitant add, she's also split up with her boyfriend. She initiates conversation and then recently I got her number. I thought I was in. Now the conversation had been going well. I can tell she liked me (I'm convinced, female/male mates all convinced), there's almost no debate there. But I left it a couple of days before texting her - then got no reply to a very open ended text. Our conversation before that had been very good and very forward. Now it's been over a week. And there's been no contact. It's just gone dead. It feels dead. I probably should've text again but got too hung up on the no reply. I also have been very aware that this girl is going away to study abroad for a few months at the end of this month I'll see her again but not until November - if I tried to start something now it could be awkward as we're both very busy. There's always a difficulty of the momentum I was trying to build breaking down regardless of what happens between now and when she goes away. (Right?) Now I don't know what to do. Have I ruined it by failing to escalate in the right moment? Should I try texting/talking to her now even though it's been weeks? Should I just wait until she gets back from studying abroad and try to relight the spark? Thanks for any help, this has been on my mind for weeks now and some form of closure or direction would do me good as it hasn't shown any signs of subsiding. In the meantime I'll look to contribute where I can as I'd hate to get something for nothing. Thanks for all replies in advance! Fred |
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