Quote: So I was introduced here by a friend and I find this site very interesting. Actually got some things Ive read put into effect and was effective.
Anyways I got this HB8 friend that I have not talk/seen for years (7-8? lol) and recently started talking to her. Make long story short, she asked me to hang out grab lunch.
hb8: did you have lunch yet?
me: ate a little earlier but lunch no.
hb8: aww was gonna ask you to lunch or something
me: buying me lunch? how nice. Omw to your house, go get dress. (dont know where she lives lol)
hb8: do u know where i live?
me: ofc not, tell me. + got her # in case i get 'lost'
when we actually met up, was nothing special. asked her to hang out again but got the im busy reply. whats the next step? Im thinking of Freezing. Any advice?
I think i would need to build serious attraction over chat/text. Need help in this.
Also seeking help on next 'date' (if there would be lol) would be more fun/exciting and get k-close atleast. Also looking into mid-game convo and effective kinos.
thx and cheers!
You're not quite ready for your own 'vocabulary'. You've learned terms, and theories - but you've not put them in to practice. Keep that in mind as you sarge.
You don't freeze-out a chick who's flaking. That's hearing "Fuck you" from a chick and you reply with "Ok, I'll call you later - if you're lucky". It doesn't fit.
After a F2F, you don't build chemistry over a text - you CONTINUE chemistry over the text. Either it's there or it isn't. She's flaked. Next time - build the chemistry over the F2F, if you think she's boring, why are you with her to begin with? If it's just to fuck her - go caveman. Either you get the guts, or your get a cool rejection story; and it was LITTLE investment on your part.
As for this chick.... I suggest move on. Work other chicks.
But, as Heywood said, if you're still feeling the itch, wait a week, then drop a random opener. Then --- all you've invested is a text to potentially fuck a chick who flaked to begin with...
WORK your game, brother!
Best,
RR
edit: I loved the "buying me lunch?" deal. Shows a level of comfort, and the ability to challenge her. Kudos.
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