What up guys, I need some help here lol. So, I met this chick through friends and we have gone out twice already. We danced and there was a lot of smiling, eye contact, and kino involved. However, she was buzzed lol Anyways, she just got out of a relationship that was about 3 years. I'm some what of a newbie here. Last time I went after a heartbroken chick I ended up in the "Friend Zone" lol Right now this chick wants nothing to do with guys. She still loves her name and shit. Anyways, how would you guys bring down her guard? She wants nothing to do with guys, but I am not planning on siting around either. So please hook me up with some advice.

Hi,

Hum... she just got out of a long relationship... carefull...or not.
It depends also in what you want from this woman. But i guess you want more than a one
night stand

Personally, in a frame of setting a relationship with her, i wouldn't try anything because emotions are still very
fresh and as you know women are emotional creatures. Too much.
I dont' know how the relationship endend but nevertheless you will
be in a situation where you will be compared to the previous guy.
I know some stories of guys that were USED by those women
just as "emotional-recycle-bin" containers just to make jealous to the ex-boyfriend,
to provoque a reaction and maybe later to return to him. Of course it is also possible
to find the opposite but that dependes how you act to her.
Does she talk about the ex?

If you are really in to her act like an alfa guy, i mean, show quality time instead of quantity time when around her.
Have your life also without her.
You don't want her to see you as an easy guy, that thinks that she is too fragile and easy to conquer just because she feels
alone. Carefull...

lusitanpua:

Thanks for the response. Well her bf dumped her because he moved up state to go to college. We met twice at parties with friends and danced. However, she is still a mess because the second time she had a little too much to drink and she hard a melt down about her ex bf.

So I know I am walking into danger zone. Like you said, I don't want to be used as an emotional recycle-bin. She is going to Vegas with my friends and I in a couple of weeks and by then depending how things go i'll # close her. But as of right now I don't talk to her and just see her when my friends bring her around. I do have her on FB, but I haven't even tried chatting with her.

I agree with lusitanpua.

Also wanted to add you can DHV yourself through Body Language when she is around and being plain awesome and fun. Just stay laid back and avoid showing Sexual Signs towards her while you think she might interpret it against you.


Yours,

Oxy