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Author:  Dr. Jones [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:06 am ]
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Have you ever agreed to meet up with a girl and then just didn't show up on purpose?

My brother is a skilled PUA, and he's done this several times. He knows what he's doing, and he said to me once, "There's nothing more amusing than agreeing to meet up with a 10 for lunch and not showing up. Just because." I don't think he's dependent on results and just does it to amuse himself.

He said the girl would pursue him more after giving him an earful on his voicemail. Cat-string theory, I guess.

Anybody?
Author:  Rough Operator [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:51 am ]
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I've cancelled, but not for my own personal amusement, no.
Author:  Heartnet [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:57 am ]
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That is a way to spark interest in the girl but also a powerful neg. You DO NOT have to do it when the girl is already in a very good compliance with you.

1-Because over negging makes you a jerk.
2-She will just think that you are not interested.
3-You just lose your chance to practice on a day2.
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 3:22 am ]
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Your brother is not a skilled PUA and I don't consider anyone a PUA,

rather I do question whether he did anything himself to heighten attraction to get a date with a "10"

Sounds like he just likes to fuck over girls that are clearly into him with little to no "pick up" from his side, otherwise known as an IOI seeking chode that finally acts on strong IOIs.

I'd say he is just a retard in general. Self amusement is really good when a girl is not initially into you, YOU do something to change that, and THEN not show up....in which case...what's the point retard?

Read a book for self amusement or do better in school....Also it is random numbers game, most hot 10s with options better than him (AND THEY DEFINITELY HAVE OPTIONS BETTER THAN HIM) don't put up with that shit unless he's her boyfriend. And even then, huge numbers game. This is why mystery method is largely bullshit. It tries to say all girls react to push pull and negs the same. Every girl is different.
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 5:17 am ]
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Your brother is not a skilled PUA and I don't consider anyone a PUA,

rather I do question whether he did anything himself to heighten attraction to get a date with a "10"

Sounds like he just likes to fuck over girls that are clearly into him with little to no "pick up" from his side, otherwise known as an IOI seeking chode that finally acts on strong IOIs.

I'd say he is just a retard in general. Self amusement is really good when a girl is not initially into you, YOU do something to change that, and THEN not show up....in which case...what's the point retard?

Read a book for self amusement or do better in school....Also it is random numbers game, most hot 10s with options better than him (AND THEY DEFINITELY HAVE OPTIONS BETTER THAN HIM) don't put up with that shit unless he's her boyfriend. And even then, huge numbers game. This is why mystery method is largely bullshit. It tries to say all girls react to push pull and negs the same. Every girl is different.
Okay first off, you don't know my brother. So let's dispense with calling him a retard, chode, doody-head, etc. He's a good man. You don't know the girl wasn't initially into him, and you don't know if the girl can do better because you don't know her or my brother.

From what I understand, the girl was catty and came onto my brother. I don't think he was dependent on a reaction or even flirting back, but just entertaining her efforts to hit on him. If he wanted to establish any kind of relationship, then I agree, it''s a bad move as opposed to just showing up. An IOI is her agreeing to meet, after all.

He wouldn't do this to anyone unless they were cheating on a boyfriend or something, which I believe she was.
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 7:12 am ]
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Your brother is not a skilled PUA and I don't consider anyone a PUA,

rather I do question whether he did anything himself to heighten attraction to get a date with a "10"

Sounds like he just likes to fuck over girls that are clearly into him with little to no "pick up" from his side, otherwise known as an IOI seeking chode that finally acts on strong IOIs.

I'd say he is just a retard in general. Self amusement is really good when a girl is not initially into you, YOU do something to change that, and THEN not show up....in which case...what's the point retard?

Read a book for self amusement or do better in school....Also it is random numbers game, most hot 10s with options better than him (AND THEY DEFINITELY HAVE OPTIONS BETTER THAN HIM) don't put up with that shit unless he's her boyfriend. And even then, huge numbers game. This is why mystery method is largely bullshit. It tries to say all girls react to push pull and negs the same. Every girl is different.
Okay first off, you don't know my brother. So let's dispense with calling him a retard, chode, doody-head, etc. He's a good man. You don't know the girl wasn't initially into him, and you don't know if the girl can do better because you don't know her or my brother.

From what I understand, the girl was catty and came onto my brother. I don't think he was dependent on a reaction or even flirting back, but just entertaining her efforts to hit on him. If he wanted to establish any kind of relationship, then I agree, it''s a bad move as opposed to just showing up. An IOI is her agreeing to meet, after all.

He wouldn't do this to anyone unless they were cheating on a boyfriend or something, which I believe she was.
Well then it's partly fail on your part for failing to mention half the story. I've done some seriously fucked up DARK stuff, and I never claimed to know that girl or your brother just took best guesses by what you gave, which was partly true about her coming onto him. Now obviously, if she is THAT hot, it doesn't take a fucking genius to realize she has MANY OTHER FUCKING OPTIONS. I don't have to know her history to know that motherfucker, that's COMMON KNOWLEDGE. Now she approached him, for whatever reason, I cannot say and neither can you or your brother. Maybe it was desperation, maybe she liked what he was fucking wearing at the time, and perhaps maybe she's in his social circle and had no other better options (true reality) but this is often the reason why women approach guys, rarely if EVER. I've seen it fucking all.

In any case, I don't do shit like this on self amusing especially if I end up liking a girl....which rarely is variable...but even then that defeats the point. I'm the most self amused motherfucker there is. I don't give a fuck for pickup morals....but I do live by one alteration to traditional philosophy:

Always leave them better off unless they are trying to leave YOU worse off. I won't go into some of the most fucked up things I had guys do to women that were cold, heartless bitches, I mean shit that even made one quote and quote "10" cut herself because she didn't even know how to handle what I did to her with her friend cause I found out she was cheating on me, but all good.

I will say though, based on such limited information, dropping a date you're interested in 100% makes you a chode, a retard, and all of the above.
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 5:17 am ]
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Sure.
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