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Author:  gtdave [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 12:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Dealing with a flake. How did I do??
I don't often get flaked on by a first date so I'm not too practiced at dealing with them. I based my response on a few things I've seen on here.

Had a date set up for Tuesday night with a HB8. Pretty standard method of game was used, normally quite successful for setting up dates. I hadn't texted her in a couple of days (potential mistake). When on Tuesday lunch she sent me this.

HB8: Have you made many arrangements for later? I am so sorry but can we rain check?! I completely forgot I'd agreed to meet 3 friends who are up from ***** tonight!! We'd arranged it in June and I hadn't written it down :-( if it's a massive issue I can sack them off but if we were able to rain check to next week that would be AMAZING and I'd love you forever!

Me: Yea I'd made a few arrangements but that's no problem! Go out tonight and have fun

HB8: I really am so, so sorry! I am normally really organised!!

Me: Sure you can make it up to me next week!

(I remembered that next week is epically busy for me so before she replied I texted)

Me: Or maybe not...Turns out next week is pretty full on for me with Dublin and the event I'm organising! This ain't looking good to be fair

HB8: Well I would completely understand (even if you weren't busy next week) if you didn't want to meet me. I'll leave the ball in your court and you can contact me if you'd still like to meet at some point when you have more time :) again, I really am sorry about tonight. I feel like a complete bitch now!


That was yesterday and I've not replied as I wanted to work out if I actually could find the time and if I wanted to meet her. Plus it seemed like a good moment to become scarce and make her wonder.

Now it looks like I have an evening free next week...How should I handle this? Should I text her tonight or leave it for a few days and let her think Im no longer interested?

Appreciate any feedback guys

Dave
Author:  LD [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 12:47 pm ]
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hey mate!

she is already interested. Any more 'techniques' now would cause you to outplay yourself. If you would do it, i think she would still meet up, but i dont see any reason why you would wait a couple of days. If a woman is so eager to say she is sorry and to put the date on another time, it basically all up to you. Do you want to meet her? Yes? Then just go for what you want, no detours.

Cheers!
Author:  gtdave [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 1:22 pm ]
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Yea you migh be right! After all I'm a big believer in "out of sight, out of mind".

Cheers
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 1:23 pm ]
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If you haven't called her - kick yourself in the balls.

I don;t see it as she flaked, she made a mistake.

She's entitled. Nobody's perfect.

Now if it becomes a trend - then deal with it... but give her the benefit of the doubt here.


RR
Author:  gtdave [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 1:31 pm ]
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Balls are kicked, texting now
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 4:13 pm ]
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Make sure to spice it up by saying, "next time you dont get your calendar in gear, I'll reorganize your fucking face, bitch."

And use a smiley face...bitches luv dem smiley faces.
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 4:22 pm ]
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Quote:
Make sure to spice it up by saying, "next time you dont get your calendar in gear, I'll reorganize your fucking face, bitch."

And use a smiley face...bitches luv dem smiley faces.
Had me roaring...

Funniest part - some here will think you're joking....

Props,


RR
Author:  JamesWatson31 [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 6:41 pm ]
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She is into you.

If she could be any tamer then she would have to walk on all 4 legs.

See her ASAP and fucking well escalate.
Author:  lukeyx [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 6:53 pm ]
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Quote:
She is into you.

If she could be any tamer then she would have to walk on all 4 legs.

See her ASAP and fucking well escalate.
This, ur overthinking it
Author:  gtdave [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 8:49 pm ]
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Well I texted her earlier at lunchtime but no reply yet and it's 10pm! I think she's trying to get me back for not replying last night. Anyway I can't see her ASAP as I'm busy! She knows this and still flaked which is what pissed me off.

I'll see how it goes but I ain't contacting her again if she doesn't reply. I've other girls more interested!
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