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| Author: | bobbytjones [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 6:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | What To Do With This HB? This ones got me quite confused. |
Alright PUA experts out there, I'm usually fine but this ones got me confused and I'm sort of mind fucked right now. I need advice on how to continue this. Sorry for how long it is. This girls got me tripping over her. It's not oneitis but this girl is like legit material in most of the qualities I have been looking very very hard for and have been unable to find. Someone that has 'potential' for being a gf. Something I have been unwilling to take on for over 2 years because I can't meet one that I'm willing to commit to. So I take a trip to visit a friend and basically get setup with his girlfriends sister. We hit it off great and I K-close her the first night we are out and we sleep all cuddled up close, logistics of 5 people being in a tiny hotel room didn't allow for anything more this night. Next 3 days logistics don't allow us to get together but we are texting. Then the 4th day we get together and hang out. Go back to her place. Have makeout session then she takes me back to my hotel because she's gotta work early early. Next day texting again but something personal comes up that upsets her with family stuff so she doesn't feel like going out but says she wants to the next day for sure. We got out the next day have a great date. I start asking her to do things, we go to store I have her pick out my brothers birthday card, fill it out for me, address it, give me stamps, even keep and mail it for me the next day at work. Just small compliance shit. Lots of good kino, back to her place. Make out. Down to underwear only. Heavy touching. Basically fucking through our clothes. Her telling me I'm so hot, etc... But she is on the rag (saw the stuff in her bathroom trash can so I know it's true). so that is the extent of it. Next day we end up meeting up in a group setting, all go to a double feature movie, good kino. Grab her hand put in on my leg, she keeps in there all 1st movie. 2nd movie same hand holding shit, blah blah. But then logistics don't let me get her back anywhere because she came separate with sis and leaves with her. But she comes back to me as I say bye nonchalantly and goes in for a kiss. Next night is my last night in town. I got responses to all my texts but she said that she already had plans and didnt know how late they would go. I simply said I'd be out late, would enjoy giving her a proper goodbye, and she could text me later if she wanted and see if it would work to meet up. She responded saying once she headed back down our way she would let me know.. Then I never heard from her. Been 24 hours since and nothing. I thought she was totally into me but it seems weird that on my last night in town she didn't want to make it work to get together. It may be important to note that this girl hasn't been in a relationship over 2 months ever. She's like the anti-girlfriend that every chill guy wants, so ultra unclingy, etc... Shes really picky too. 1) What do you think about here not hanging the last night? So we live over 1000 miles apart but where she lives has been in my top 3 for where I'm going when I move in 9 months. I don't know when/if we will see each other again. My question is how should I play this? Wait a few days, then text? call her? Do I FB friend her or is that bad? How do I let her know I'm still interesting in having something with here without being AFC and just coming out and saying it. I don't want this to shit into nothing only because both of us simply assume the other isn't interested in long distance, when we both could possibly be very interested in making it work til when/if I move. |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 7:06 am ] |
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Well....that was quite a list of qualification at the beginning. Clearly you like this girl, clearly the universe wanted to fuck you in terms of the sad fate of logistics, and there is only so much an actual man can do. I feel you were direct enough in your intent as a man and you escalated and got the kiss. Not sure what the underwear humping was all about...but in any case whatever. As for her, not much you CAN do. If she is the stigmata of a girlfriend, I suspect she has become bored/indifferent of you or is naturally just being herself, and does not care she made out with you, practically boned you through your undies etc. 1,000 miles away and you want to know how you can play this? Good luck. I myself have gotten many girls in LDR's or ones that had sexual encounters with a dude far away. You could be her out of town fuck but make no mistake not much you can do here if another man that is good with women (realizing who he is) comes into the picture. I'd text her for another meet up and stress closing the deal no matter what...or next best thing: move on. You didn't go balls deep for her to want anything more. |
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| Author: | bobbytjones [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 7:22 am ] |
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First off. thanks for your response. So. haha, the undie fucking and not actual fucking her problem was she was on the rag. And I can't go for another meet up right now because I left town. I'd certainly be okay with out of town fuck friend, etc, whatever. See where it leads or doesn't lead. I'm just thinking how to play this to keep her into me? I've got zilch in the experience of a getting a girl you only knew for a week progressing to an LDR or even LD fuck friend. I'm assuming she's still interested and was actually just to busy seems right, right? Heck maybe she was still on the rag and couldn't/didn't wanna fuck in that situation so it wasn't worth it to meet up? |
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| Author: | bobbytjones [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 7:24 am ] |
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Also to be clear based on her sister she isn't the anti-girlfriend in the sense that she just fucks dudes etc, blah blah. Her sister in fact keeps telling her she needs to get fucked because she hasn't in a long time because all guys just disappoint her and she ends up not interested. |
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