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Author:  RAFC Dude [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 2:10 am ]
Post subject:  I hate it when girls think I'm gay...
... because I turned them down.

First, I want to state that I have nothing againts gays. I'm pro gay marriage and all andI have some cool gay friends (plus lesbians are hot!), but it does annoy me.

Last month I turned down a girl I met through friends. She immeadiately wanted to be my GF, befriended all my friends etc.
I turned her down because she's not exactly a beauty for the eyes, HB 6, but mainly because she constantly acts like a kid and wants lots of attention from guys.

I tried not to hurt her feelings, said she was a great girl but just not my type, that I was too busy for a relationship but I obviously wanted to be good friends.

Now she thinks (or makes herself think) that I'm gay. Whenever I even touch another guy and she sees it, she's all like: "OMG why are you touching him? You're gay or something?"

A few days ago I'm talking to a friend about some hot chicks we met last week. She sits next to him and asks what we're talking about. The guy says we're talking about girls. Then she says to me: What do you have to say about girls? You've only had one and it's been almost 2 years ago. People might start to think you're gay."

I just ignore her when she does it. Some of my friends use it againts me for a laugh, but hey we're all guys :D I would do the same myself. It's not a big deal after the first few times, but now it's getting annoying. She's almost integrated in my friends group so she'll be with us every week.

And this happened before. I turned a girl down once and a few weeks later she starts to hint if I might be gay (she was smart enough to be subtle). But that was only on msn and quickly stopped when I hada GF a few weeks later.

If this goes on someday I'm gonna tell her I turned her down because she's dumb and ugly, but then everyone will say I'm a rude bastard!

Girls, I'll never get them!
Author:  pablohernandez [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 2:18 am ]
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"Come round my mine tonight and youll find out if Im gay"

Thats what you need to say.
Author:  RAFC Dude [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 2:23 am ]
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"Come round my mine tonight and youll find out if Im gay"

Thats what you need to say.
I could fuck her if I wanted to. Only issue here is that I have totally no attraction towards her.
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 3:26 am ]
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Quote:
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"Come round my mine tonight and youll find out if Im gay"

Thats what you need to say.
I could fuck her if I wanted to. Only issue here is that I have totally no attraction towards her.
Repeat after me, if she is not giving you pussy - stop caring.
Author:  On A Rampage [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 8:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I hate it when girls think I'm gay...
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... because I turned them down.



Girls, I'll never get them!
See how retarded this sounds?

Your saying you turn girls down then say you don't get them? :?
Author:  $hane [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 10:10 pm ]
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haha dont be a douche and hurt her feelings but just be like "listen up i am not gay, i am just not in to you" and i bet she will shut up.

but you also got to think about it as, this is probably her way of dealing with rejection.

like for example: when you as a guy gets shot down by a girl. what do you do to not turn her turning you down into a negative thing. you probably say "shes probably a bitch anyways" or "she not that hot" idk you probably say something to yourself so you dont like feel like a fool or something. but unlike us guys girls cant internally deal with rejection they show it in a outwardly vocalistic kinda way so the can feel better than themselves.
Author:  Picun [ Tue Jul 03, 2012 12:18 am ]
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In two threads, one after the other I´ve seen this post Dude and it wouldn´t surprise me if it can be found in other threads.... Is copying/pasting your little ad all you have to offer as an advice? pretty lame... lol

Apart from that: RAFC Dude tell her to shut the fuck up once if she´s annoying you. When you´re done repeat after Captain Jack!
Author:  Zach P. [ Tue Jul 03, 2012 3:59 am ]
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"In two threads, one after the other I´ve seen this post Dude and it wouldn´t surprise me if it can be found in other threads.... Is copying/pasting your little ad all you have to offer as an advice? pretty lame... lol"

Just trying to get the word out broseph
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Jul 03, 2012 4:01 pm ]
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"In two threads, one after the other I´ve seen this post Dude and it wouldn´t surprise me if it can be found in other threads.... Is copying/pasting your little ad all you have to offer as an advice? pretty lame... lol"

Just trying to get the word out broseph
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Author:  Jimsonator11 [ Tue Jul 03, 2012 4:28 pm ]
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Honestly I wouldn't do anything bro maybe tell her off nicely but you have to think about the fact that this plays perfectly into the whole 'my friend thinks I'm gay what do you think?' opener haha. Use it to your advantage and get some HB10s with it and she will shut up fast I guarantee it
Author:  midlife_crysus [ Tue Jul 03, 2012 4:37 pm ]
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just say if I were gay, would I be able to fit into these tight spandex? and talk with this incredible lisp?

That'll teach her :lol:
Author:  RAFC Dude [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 12:58 am ]
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Haha thanks for some the advices, I'm just gonna stop caring :)

@ On A Rampage: It's not because some girls are into me that I understand how they think. I'll never get their logic.
Author:  PolarBear [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 4:12 am ]
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Totally an IOI.

I've had similar problems like this before. I used to get mad, deny, argue, etc., which was a detrimental DLV. But, I eventually learned.

Always been an IOI for me... Or any of my wing-men (for that matter).

Ignore it, play along, embrace it. But, what ever you do, don't react in a negative way.

Be secure with who you are - You know you are straight. Who else cares.
Author:  Henry.Faith [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 4:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I hate it when girls think I'm gay...
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... because I turned them down.
No healthy woman would think you are gay for turning them down.

I am not rude, but I typically say, "I have standards." A good friend of mine, who is more polite says, "I have options."
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First, I want to state that I have nothing againts gays. I'm pro gay marriage and all andI have some cool gay friends (plus lesbians are hot!), but it does annoy me.

Last month I turned down a girl I met through friends. She immeadiately wanted to be my GF, befriended all my friends etc.
I turned her down because she's not exactly a beauty for the eyes, HB 6, but mainly because she constantly acts like a kid and wants lots of attention from guys.

I tried not to hurt her feelings, said she was a great girl but just not my type, that I was too busy for a relationship but I obviously wanted to be good friends.

Now she thinks (or makes herself think) that I'm gay. Whenever I even touch another guy and she sees it, she's all like: "OMG why are you touching him? You're gay or something?"
I did not read this, but as you can tell she is obsessive. That is what is admirable. You don't have an issue with her looks but you do have an issue with her personality.

You do not have to justify your discomfort. I am very religious but I do understand the hardship of the gay community. I think that is what you are feeling. You have gay friends, she thinks it is demeaning to call you gay and you know it is not.

It is a reflection of her character not yours.
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I just ignore her when she does it. Some of my friends use it againts me for a laugh, but hey we're all guys :D I would do the same myself. It's not a big deal after the first few times, but now it's getting annoying. She's almost integrated in my friends group so she'll be with us every week.
You handle it well and that is impressive. Having a sense of humor and not taking things personally is the exact way to handle relationships. You have friends and you have options.

Also, it's just me but I tend to wear khakis for that reason. The skinny jeans are never good.

But it sounds like you have a level head on your shoulder so I defer to you when it comes to what you like to wear.

Thanks, this reassuring.
Author:  IwantEasyLove [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 5:07 am ]
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whats wrong with her personality? You should want a woman who is obsessed with you
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