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Author:  Caster [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 12:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Huge shit test help did I pass?
Ok so this HB8 was having a birthday party and at the start I was one of the first people to be invited anyway it's the day before the party and HB8 pops up saying:

HB8:
yeah i just remembered sorry u cant come to my party
my dad said a while ago i wasnt aloud anymore people
than i had already invited

Me: no probs

HB8:
some people said they may not be able to come
so u cud come if they decied not to and ill give u a text around 10
if thats ok?

Me:
Yeah but make up your mind woman I already told other peeps that I could hook up now :L I'll go with them but drop me a text and if there place is crap I might make an appearance

HB8:
ok ok well i will text u at 10

Did I pass or fail and how could I improve it?
Author:  KimPa [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 1:42 pm ]
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I think you failed this shit test mate.. You got controlled by her as if you were a little puppy following its owner.. She invited you then she told you not to come then she told maybe you can come.. Come on man.. Are you thaaat desperate to go? Have some self respect to yourself! You should have said that you can't come anymore as you have other plans with friends and you can't ditch them.. period.. Instead you told her you are still available! ( I'm still going to follow your lead)..
Besides, you are not a priority obviously.. She told you at the end, you can only come because some people are not coming.. Your choice if you want to go or not.. However, I wouldn't..
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 1:51 pm ]
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KimPA is right.

The chick disrespected the fuck out of you.

I'd have said the No Problem, just like you did..... but when the next text came about re-inviting you... I'd simply have said "Not happening, Your window closed."

Then no further contact.


YOU control you, nobody else.

RR
Author:  Caster [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 3:02 pm ]
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Ok but I thought by saying that I was going out with other mates it would have made some kind of difference in her opinion of me or was there a better way if doing it?
Author:  IwantEasyLove [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 3:09 pm ]
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You probably should have just said something like "o I can't come? well thats one less gift you'll get :p"
Author:  IwantEasyLove [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 3:10 pm ]
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Ok but I thought by saying that I was going out with other mates it would have made some kind of difference in her opinion of me or was there a better way if doing it?
You're waiting around on her that makes you look "chasey"
Author:  JamesWatson31 [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 4:24 pm ]
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Quote:
KimPA is right.

The chick disrespected the fuck out of you.

I'd have said the No Problem, just like you did..... but when the next text came about re-inviting you... I'd simply have said "Not happening, Your window closed."

Then no further contact.


YOU control you, nobody else.

RR
Right on the money! She either complies at once or it's ADIOS baby!
Author:  IwantEasyLove [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 4:26 pm ]
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RR's text is kind of mean, but I mean if you feel disrespected I'm not against being mean i just don't know if this girl is intentionally disrespecting you.
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 4:43 pm ]
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RR text isn't mean but it slams the door on a chance to regame a little more strongly then I would play it, but that's just a style issue and subjective

Also the OP's response wasn't bad, he made other plans and let the target know he wasn't playing second fiddle.

The real issue is trying to increase your value with a chick that is only somewhat interested, shes basically hanging by a thread and a single failed shit test or noncompliance isue will likely kill your chances. Try to keep up the high value frame but get her out on a live meet up, your ability to raise attraction and firm up this prospect is EXTREMELY limited via text, no matter how clever your text game is.
Author:  Caster [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 5:11 pm ]
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thanks detox but how would you go about it to demonstrate more high value?
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 6:16 pm ]
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RR's text is kind of mean, but I mean if you feel disrespected I'm not against being mean i just don't know if this girl is intentionally disrespecting you.
How is that mean? She disrespected HIM. She told him directly he wasn't a priority - but could come if OTHER people failed to show! And that's cool with you? Not me, not my style - and NOT from a chick HOPING to be on my program.

Wow... your game and mine are different - I don't tolerate disrespect - ever. I quell it and move the fuck on. Life's too short and there are too many chicks to focus on ONE who's a bitch.

Bounce and fuck another.

Different strokes... LOL

RR
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 8:10 pm ]
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Caster you have demonstrated enough game to know how to pull attraction triggers, whether you are doing it effectively is another matter. These triggers are just manifestations of higher value. I can list them explicitly but I dont think thats necessary. Just continue what you are doing already, being mindful of good game, and get her out on a date sooner then later if possible.
Author:  Caster [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 8:19 pm ]
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Thanks for the help man also do you know any sargers in bristol that would be able to help me?
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 8:27 pm ]
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I believe Bristol is the original home of the apocalypse opener, i'm in the states but peep this it should do the trick:

http://www.bristollair.com/
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Jun 30, 2012 9:10 pm ]
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hey man,

does it not bother you being treated like this?
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