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Author:  dark one [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 3:34 am ]
Post subject:  Does Pick up work on men?
I don't believe the rules apply the same way for men as they do for women, I recently introduced my gf to my world of pick up, told her about my past, and she seems veryvery intrigued! she has been watching video's and reading articles online which I think is great! The only problem is that I feel like she is trying to use these techniques lol and quite frankly she is doing the opposite of what pickup is meant to do, she is pushing me away...I feel like men want very very different things from women! We enjoy being praised, we like to be told we are loved ect ect....I think I am going to call her out the next time she tries to neg more or pull some stupid line.

Any way do you feel pick up works on both men and women?
Author:  charblad [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:54 am ]
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Brutally honest moment - if she's Negging you she is NOT showing pua behavior, negs are for the rarest use on the hottest (I mean 11's on a scale 1-10) women, not once every hour on your lover (if this is going wrong im sure there's other things she's not doin right too)
But yes, women are attracted to experience, confidence, and stories, men simple want tits and a personality that's not a bitch
Author:  P-Style [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:04 pm ]
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It's not that simple of course charblad. But everything in psychology goes both ways. You alienate yourself from reality by calling it pickup. It's human interaction and it's the same every single time.
Author:  TheSeagull [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Does Pick up work on men?
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I feel like men want very very different things from women! We enjoy being praised, we like to be told we are loved ect ect....
agreed. being a challenge in the initial stages of courtship works both ways. but once a guy has settled down in a relationship, he certainly does not want to be negged or be constantly kept wondering with an abundance mentality from his date.. at least, for me that would be an effective deal-breaker

I suspect your GF has discovered a new toy and is now playing with it.. try to tell her about frame and calibration. she might appreciate the lecture :lol:

incidentally, I am glad I did not have that kind of issue when I told my girl about PUA. the only effect I got is that she squeezes my hand and says "IOI". I am still thinking to get her a copy of "The game" someday. she has a weird conflicting relationship with that book (as in, how could I fall for a sequence of steps written in a book?)
Author:  skills360 [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:46 pm ]
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You did a bad teaching job, i taught my gf, change her life, now she is working out, more confident,dressing better, got a haircut, change her color and she does not give a fuck about what people think...Anyways you only teach what you want her to learn, then you mold her to how you want her to be.
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:50 pm ]
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men and woman have a completely different genetic mechanism for choosing mates, and since attraction is just an abstracted behavioral manifestation of the embedded genetic impetus, pick up, as it functions for men, is mostly non-applicable to woman.
Author:  dark one [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 5:05 pm ]
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You did a bad teaching job, i taught my gf, change her life, now she is working out, more confident,dressing better, got a haircut, change her color and she does not give a fuck about what people think...Anyways you only teach what you want her to learn, then you mold her to how you want her to be.
I did not teach her a thing! she was curious as to what I did before we got together and I simply told her I was in a "pick up" community, I help men get the women they want, I was very good at what I did and still am, from there she started doing her own research, watching videos.

She's not being mean but I tell she is trying stuff out on me, classic lines ect ect....just kind of irritates me because 1# I don't want to be playing games in my relationship, and 2# The classic pick up rules don't apply to men, we are a whole other creature.

She also wants to watch me pick other women up at the bar which I am not 100% comfortable with yet, it just feels weird picking up women while your gf watches you lol
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 5:10 pm ]
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Dark one... Are you going to amrry this chick?

It's a rhetorical question.

If you hesitated at all answering that to yourself - I'd highly suggest calling her out. "You want me to pick up a chick? OK - you wingman for me and we both enjoy her."

Regain control - she's taking it from you.
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 5:11 pm ]
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sounds to me I read this same script in "Get laid or die trying" by RSD instructor Jeff Allen. Do what he did, use her as a pawn/pivot for getting threesomes.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 5:14 pm ]
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Hot Female PUA: "Do you want to fuck?"

Any male target: "YES"

The End! Fin!

FYI Women are running game 24/7 EVEN if they are totally unaware!
Author:  dark one [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 5:26 pm ]
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Dark one... Are you going to amrry this chick?

It's a rhetorical question.

If you hesitated at all answering that to yourself - I'd highly suggest calling her out. "You want me to pick up a chick? OK - you wingman for me and we both enjoy her."

Regain control - she's taking it from you.
haha no no she not taking anything from me, I am not worried about it, its interesting to her I understand that, its new, its more irritating to me than anything because I don't want pick up inside my relationship, I want to just be my self and relax, I used it to get laid and meet my current gf (the women I will prob end up married to), I don't think there is any place for pick up tactics in a relationship, I do believe keeping an alpha frame is key! but not pick up. If I wanted to be gaming girls I would still be single, it was a lot of fun! but I found my ideal women (my gf) so I have no need for it anymore....I still polish my skill from time to time when I'm out but I have no intention of cheating.
Author:  skills360 [ Fri Jun 29, 2012 4:33 am ]
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You did a bad teaching job, i taught my gf, change her life, now she is working out, more confident,dressing better, got a haircut, change her color and she does not give a fuck about what people think...Anyways you only teach what you want her to learn, then you mold her to how you want her to be.
I did not teach her a thing! she was curious as to what I did before we got together and I simply told her I was in a "pick up" community, I help men get the women they want, I was very good at what I did and still am, from there she started doing her own research, watching videos.

She's not being mean but I tell she is trying stuff out on me, classic lines ect ect....just kind of irritates me because 1# I don't want to be playing games in my relationship, and 2# The classic pick up rules don't apply to men, we are a whole other creature.

She also wants to watch me pick other women up at the bar which I am not 100% comfortable with yet, it just feels weird picking up women while your gf watches you lol

some stuff works on guys, if she wants to learn women pick up tell her to read the rules, then again you will be fucked, plus since you know what you are doing you will call her on her bluff, if i were you i will call her on all her games and magnify it, "oh you are running neg" very nice that shit don't work on me, but nice try..... i think your gf is going through the newbie stage of obsession with pick up.. i think she is probably going through a stage, she will grow out of it, my gf, is not obsess or care about pick up, your girl sounds more like a groupie, and that is not good for you, since curiosity kill the cat..
Author:  dark one [ Fri Jun 29, 2012 5:06 am ]
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You did a bad teaching job, i taught my gf, change her life, now she is working out, more confident,dressing better, got a haircut, change her color and she does not give a fuck about what people think...Anyways you only teach what you want her to learn, then you mold her to how you want her to be.
I did not teach her a thing! she was curious as to what I did before we got together and I simply told her I was in a "pick up" community, I help men get the women they want, I was very good at what I did and still am, from there she started doing her own research, watching videos.

She's not being mean but I tell she is trying stuff out on me, classic lines ect ect....just kind of irritates me because 1# I don't want to be playing games in my relationship, and 2# The classic pick up rules don't apply to men, we are a whole other creature.

She also wants to watch me pick other women up at the bar which I am not 100% comfortable with yet, it just feels weird picking up women while your gf watches you lol

some stuff works on guys, if she wants to learn women pick up tell her to read the rules, then again you will be fucked, plus since you know what you are doing you will call her on her bluff, if i were you i will call her on all her games and magnify it, "oh you are running neg" very nice that shit don't work on me, but nice try..... i think your gf is going through the newbie stage of obsession with pick up.. i think she is probably going through a stage, she will grow out of it, my gf, is not obsess or care about pick up, your girl sounds more like a groupie, and that is not good for you, since curiosity kill the cat..
meh...she can run off with who ever she wants, it doesn't get better then me! I treat her well, have a good head on my shoulder, Im good looking, fit, her life has only gotten better since she has been with me, and I am a true alpha male in most situations....some of the guys she dated before me were either ass holes, or total beta push overs. She could leave me but she would get a rude awakening! I love her don't get me wrong but I know Im a good catch! Guys like my self don't come along very often and I know what kind of women I am capable of getting with! she knows as well.

Might sound a little a little conceited but that's the truth.
Author:  pumpington [ Fri Jun 29, 2012 8:02 am ]
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can a girl build social status around you and get you emotionally attracted to her? yes, works both on men and women

however we interact and choose mates differently, men are far less selective, and it can help but is really not required for girls to have good social skills in order to get laid with consistency, honestly you just have to open a guy, tell him he is cute... game just got ran, he either wants to sleep with the girl, or he doesn't (as a guy, not sure how you are not already aware of this)

pickup skills could actually help girls get guys to invest more for relationships though if they are good, it's the equivalent of just meeting someone who is cool (good social skills), you are thinking to yourself... damn my gf is fucking awesome, then she is probably running a good game, if your thinking, thank god for that ass cause she is annoying as fuck to be around... then shes got no game

but really, just cause a girl breaks rapport on you (neg) doesn't mean anything, most people break rapport on a daily basis, doesn't mean that they study pickup just cause they tease someone
Author:  skills360 [ Fri Jun 29, 2012 1:20 pm ]
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I did not teach her a thing! she was curious as to what I did before we got together and I simply told her I was in a "pick up" community, I help men get the women they want, I was very good at what I did and still am, from there she started doing her own research, watching videos.

She's not being mean but I tell she is trying stuff out on me, classic lines ect ect....just kind of irritates me because 1# I don't want to be playing games in my relationship, and 2# The classic pick up rules don't apply to men, we are a whole other creature.

She also wants to watch me pick other women up at the bar which I am not 100% comfortable with yet, it just feels weird picking up women while your gf watches you lol

some stuff works on guys, if she wants to learn women pick up tell her to read the rules, then again you will be fucked, plus since you know what you are doing you will call her on her bluff, if i were you i will call her on all her games and magnify it, "oh you are running neg" very nice that shit don't work on me, but nice try..... i think your gf is going through the newbie stage of obsession with pick up.. i think she is probably going through a stage, she will grow out of it, my gf, is not obsess or care about pick up, your girl sounds more like a groupie, and that is not good for you, since curiosity kill the cat..
meh...she can run off with who ever she wants, it doesn't get better then me! I treat her well, have a good head on my shoulder, Im good looking, fit, her life has only gotten better since she has been with me, and I am a true alpha male in most situations....some of the guys she dated before me were either ass holes, or total beta push overs. She could leave me but she would get a rude awakening! I love her don't get me wrong but I know Im a good catch! Guys like my self don't come along very often and I know what kind of women I am capable of getting with! she knows as well.

Might sound a little a little conceited but that's the truth.

^ Excellent frame, by this response, i know she ain't going anywhere, you ain't a pussy... I do game in my relationship by giving my gf, different rollercoster of emotions it works for me, I do it naturally is not really a game, i did a post on the subject:

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