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Author:  peiper [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 2:46 am ]
Post subject:  am i "too cool" for her to let her gaurd down
I'm really not trying to sound like a douchebag here, but is it possible to be "too cool" for a girl to just relax and enjoy your company.

I just want to know how to tone down the awesomeness level. i feel as though i am too intimidating for some girls to just chill. these are less confident girls, but ones that i still have an interest in. any ideas?
Author:  IwantEasyLove [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 2:48 am ]
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what are you saying? if you are cool and chill then a girl should be willing to be herself! Are you like constantly negging them and talking shit?
Author:  Craig1919 [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 3:06 am ]
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Could always just go for the more confident ones so you dont have to change your energy levels etc, although this doesnt really matter anyway.
Author:  peiper [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 3:32 am ]
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not negging, i really only do that very occasionally with more confident girls. some background on this might really help:

I am a good looking guy, now in college, very good social circle, charming, the whole package.

i feel as though this popularity is potentially damaging. i know this sounds contradictory but a lot of shit in PU is contradictory. I just dont want to come off as too intimidating.
Author:  LD [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 5:26 am ]
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Hey mate,

perhaps it is not because of pure awesomeness, but perhaps it is because you are having trouble making a deeper connection....

Like for shy girls, you need to take your time. Don't be a tornado of awesomeness, be a gentle breeze and make that connection on a more emotional level.
Author:  peiper [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 2:37 pm ]
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you know LD... that sounds like it could be totally right. i'll try that next time
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 2:41 pm ]
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Well mate this best way to get a girl to just relax and let her guard down is for her to feel as if she is cooler than you. When in the presence of someone you know you are a lot cooler/Smarter/fun than, you suddenly just become more cool due to the fact that you cool confidence is at an all time high because no one around you can match you're coolness. However, I'm not sure this is what you want; i want girls to be just a bit nervous around me, it keeps them on there toes. They also try harder to please and impress you when they are intimidated so this only helps you're seduction. ;)
Author:  LD [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 3:49 pm ]
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you know LD... that sounds like it could be totally right. i'll try that next time
:) let me know how it went because for all that matters i can be horribly wrong as well :D

But good luck!
Author:  peiper [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 5:08 am ]
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alright i will be trying eddie fews on one chick and LDs on another. thank you all for your input, you have been very helpful :)
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