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Author:  midlife_crysus [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 6:55 pm ]
Post subject:  How Long Does it Take?
to become consistent with picking up.

I have been picking up and/or trying prolly since in high school with inconsistent,
highly variable results.

So the idea I guess is to make it less of a mystery and more nuts and bolts.

If I bat .200 now, how long does it take me to get to .300 or even as the great Ted Williams, .400?
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 7:07 pm ]
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I'm 45, and have slept with 36 women this year thus far... I slept with many last year as well - but not to the level of success I've had this year, nor did I try as hard either....

Daygame is my bread and butter.

But - it's still peaks and valleys. On occasion, I've had a dry spell.. then on another, I fucked 4 women in 4 days and turned one down. It all balances out.

I just monitor my own mood now. When I feel like sarging, and I'm in a good mood - I actively go out for that purpose. But - I also sarge whenever/whever I am as it is.

I used to shop for groceries once a week - now I do it daily. More exposure to women.

The older you get, the more in tune you are with what defines your own game. After that, I truly believe your failure rate largely depends on your own mood. I'm to the point now that if I simply want to get laid - I can.

Hope that helps somewhat...

RR
Author:  midlife_crysus [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 7:20 pm ]
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I'm 45, and have slept with 36 women this year thus far... I slept with many last year as well - but not to the level of success I've had this year, nor did I try as hard either....

Daygame is my bread and butter.

But - it's still peaks and valleys. On occasion, I've had a dry spell.. then on another, I fucked 4 women in 4 days and turned one down. It all balances out.

I just monitor my own mood now. When I feel like sarging, and I'm in a good mood - I actively go out for that purpose. But - I also sarge whenever/whever I am as it is.

I used to shop for groceries once a week - now I do it daily. More exposure to women.

The older you get, the more in tune you are with what defines your own game. After that, I truly believe your failure rate largely depends on your own mood. I'm to the point now that if I simply want to get laid - I can.

Hope that helps somewhat...

RR
Well getting laid is one thing, getting laid with woman worth mentioning the next day is another. If I lower my standards I could get laid more often as well.
Author:  JuanAntonioB [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 7:37 pm ]
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standards do play a part.. but assuming your looking to score only with girls you are attractive to, id say it takes 18-24 months to become a pro.

this assumes you are practicing and improving each month, and not taking any time off.

its like any other sport or craft, the more you practice the better you get
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 7:48 pm ]
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Well getting laid is one thing, getting laid with woman worth mentioning the next day is another. If I lower my standards I could get laid more often as well.
Either we're on the same page - or you're somehow thinking I fuck sub-standard women....
Author:  trex1024 [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 10:52 am ]
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Well getting laid is one thing, getting laid with woman worth mentioning the next day is another. If I lower my standards I could get laid more often as well.
Either we're on the same page - or you're somehow thinking I fuck sub-standard women....
nothing personal but i thought, the quality of women drops as you get older. this is my 28 year old dilemma
Author:  Boyo [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 11:02 am ]
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to become consistent with picking up.

I have been picking up and/or trying prolly since in high school with inconsistent,
highly variable results.

So the idea I guess is to make it less of a mystery and more nuts and bolts.

If I bat .200 now, how long does it take me to get to .300 or even as the great Ted Williams, .400?
You may never get there!
Dont worry about how long it will take and just enjoy the journey, at some point youll be like rodeo and get one you want if you keep at it. You may take another week to master it, while i might take another year! Everyone learns at different rates.

However, it seems you're trying to get better, but making no obvious progress.
Start writing a journal or report, set objectives and review your progress, it may become more apparent where you're getting better or stopping somewhere when you look back at your achievements. Its certainly helped me.

Regards,

Boyo
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 12:21 pm ]
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nothing personal but i thought, the quality of women drops as you get older. this is my 28 year old dilemma
You thought wrong.



(And it's so easy now...)


RR
Author:  midlife_crysus [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 3:06 pm ]
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Well getting laid is one thing, getting laid with woman worth mentioning the next day is another. If I lower my standards I could get laid more often as well.
Either we're on the same page - or you're somehow thinking I fuck sub-standard women....
nothing personal but i thought, the quality of women drops as you get older. this is my 28 year old dilemma
No for women it seems to, but guys always want a hot chick regardless.
Author:  midlife_crysus [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 3:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How Long Does it Take?
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to become consistent with picking up.

I have been picking up and/or trying prolly since in high school with inconsistent,
highly variable results.

So the idea I guess is to make it less of a mystery and more nuts and bolts.

If I bat .200 now, how long does it take me to get to .300 or even as the great Ted Williams, .400?
You may never get there!
Dont worry about how long it will take and just enjoy the journey, at some point youll be like rodeo and get one you want if you keep at it. You may take another week to master it, while i might take another year! Everyone learns at different rates.

However, it seems you're trying to get better, but making no obvious progress.
Start writing a journal or report, set objectives and review your progress, it may become more apparent where you're getting better or stopping somewhere when you look back at your achievements. Its certainly helped me.

Regards,

Boyo
oh boyo, oh boyo.

I may never get there huh? How bout yourself? lol

Talking about getting consistent results with hot women. Not talking about finding one to marry, that will figure itself out when the time comes. Been there already with that though.
Author:  bp029 [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 6:06 pm ]
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Well getting laid is one thing, getting laid with woman worth mentioning the next day is another. If I lower my standards I could get laid more often as well.
Either we're on the same page - or you're somehow thinking I fuck sub-standard women....
nothing personal but i thought, the quality of women drops as you get older. this is my 28 year old dilemma
I wouldn't be worrying about your age at 28 unless you look old beyond your years in which case you might want to do something about that.

It's not about your age, it's about how well you take care of yourself. Age is just a number which only matters on dating sites. In person no one has any idea how old anyone else it.
Author:  midlife_crysus [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 6:12 pm ]
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Either we're on the same page - or you're somehow thinking I fuck sub-standard women....
nothing personal but i thought, the quality of women drops as you get older. this is my 28 year old dilemma
I wouldn't be worrying about your age at 28 unless you look old beyond your years in which case you might want to do something about that.

It's not about your age, it's about how well you take care of yourself. Age is just a number which only matters on dating sites. In person no one has any idea how old anyone else it.
Age is just a number for a while, if things get serious, which sometimes they do, then it matters.

Unless u got millions, women want somebody relatively close to their age. Why marry somebody who is gonna be dead in 20 years? lol

and If your 90, no amount of taking care of yourself or coloring your hair is going to make a 30 year old go after you. :lol:
Author:  bp029 [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 1:27 am ]
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nothing personal but i thought, the quality of women drops as you get older. this is my 28 year old dilemma
I wouldn't be worrying about your age at 28 unless you look old beyond your years in which case you might want to do something about that.

It's not about your age, it's about how well you take care of yourself. Age is just a number which only matters on dating sites. In person no one has any idea how old anyone else it.
Age is just a number for a while, if things get serious, which sometimes they do, then it matters.

Unless u got millions, women want somebody relatively close to their age. Why marry somebody who is gonna be dead in 20 years? lol

and If your 90, no amount of taking care of yourself or coloring your hair is going to make a 30 year old go after you. :lol:
LOL yea I meant in a reasonable age range. A guy who takes good care of himself and in his 40s can still game 20 somethings and be successful. Of couse a 90 y/o man won't be successful gaming 20 year olds (unless they have some sort of fetish lol). Actually I used to see a guy probably in his 70s or 80s dressed just like all the guys in their 20s trying to pick up chicks at a bar I go to. A lot of girls used to hug him - I don't think he took any home but you never know lol.
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 4:18 am ]
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I'm mid-40's, but I find lower 30's about my extreme. Mid-30's is easy. I generally gamed only mid-30's and up. Statistically much easier to close.

I can talk and talk to a chick in her 20's.... and could close one on occasion. The occasions are far more frequent in my correct demographic.


RR
Author:  HeavyRota8tion [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 5:15 am ]
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However long as it needs to take.
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