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Author:  danielzed [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 7:46 pm ]
Post subject:  How to flake
DISCLAIMER: this whole situation is retarded lol. its not anything big or drama filled or exciting, im actually just curious. so if you're looking for something juicy, might as well stop reading.. (I added this in after I re-read my post lol)

Hey... So this is a situation where I really didn't know what to do, so I'm going to quickly summorize how I dealt with it and I'm wondering what you guys would do differently (and lol probably more correctly).

My girlfriend and I are dating for around 6 months (both 22y.o) and everythings good. We are semi long distance for the time being (she has a temp job an hour drive away) so only see each other on weekends. This weekend she came to visit on friday. last night she ended up going out to a friend of her's birthday party and slept over with her. I ended up going out as well with some of my friends. I ended up getting trashed and am quite hung over today.

So today, she was supposed to go back home, but she texted me if i want to hang out. i replied that if she really wants, but im pretty tired and antisocial so it might not be fun. HERES MY FIRST QUESTION. this was probably a bad response? it was honest, and i didnt want to just say "nah, i dont feel like it". but saying im antisocial MUST be a DLV.. how would you handle it?

Anyways, we text back and forth a bit and it ends up like this:
her: "but i want to see you... we can go for a walk"
me: "its cute how you dont take no for an answer"
her: "i dont want to miss a chance to see you? so ill just wander around downtown till you get here"
me: "gr. i hate how i like you and youre able to convince me to do things"
her: "i got strawberries... you better come quickly before theyre gone"

So now I'm about to leave and go hang out with her. I'm overall confused as to what you guys would do about this. Technically, I did wrong by doing what she wants. But also, we do see each other only once a week and lol of course i want to see her (hangovers are for pussies anyways), so really its just stupid pride that i dont want her to "win".
Author:  daffy duck [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 7:57 pm ]
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trust me. tell anyone you are 'antisocial' and they will most likely presume 'oh how interesting. this guy must be really social to openly admit he's antisocial'.

just like if i told you 'don't listen to anyone else, my advice is the best', you would automatically assume i was full of shit.

p.s. - don't listen to me, i'm usually full of shit. :-)
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 8:09 pm ]
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You're overanalyzing things. Too many guys are concerned with DLVs/DHVs, just go with whatever you feel like doing so long as it doesn't come from a place of neediness you're good to go. Getting caught up in the 'game' can actually grossly impede your success with women, particularly when you're constantly questioning yourself.

The game, for the most part is a big joke. The only guys who follow it, particularly to the letter are social retards who can't think for themselves or have any faith that they may actually have something to offer a woman (So-called Game gurus know this and capitalize on it by selling these fools books, seminars, & DVDs).
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 8:11 pm ]
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trust me. tell anyone you are 'antisocial' and they will most likely presume 'oh how interesting. this guy must be really social to openly admit he's antisocial'.

just like if i told you 'don't listen to anyone else, my advice is the best', you would automatically assume i was full of shit.

p.s. - don't listen to me, i'm usually full of shit. :-)
Smartest thing you've said on this board.
Author:  daffy duck [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 8:22 pm ]
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Quote:
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trust me. tell anyone you are 'antisocial' and they will most likely presume 'oh how interesting. this guy must be really social to openly admit he's antisocial'.

just like if i told you 'don't listen to anyone else, my advice is the best', you would automatically assume i was full of shit.

p.s. - don't listen to me, i'm usually full of shit. :-)
Smartest thing you've said on this board.
lol. :lol: i'm so glad you didn't disappoint my expectations...:-)
Author:  daffy duck [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 8:46 pm ]
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Quote:
You're overanalyzing things. Too many guys are concerned with DLVs/DHVs, just go with whatever you feel like doing so long as it doesn't come from a place of neediness you're good to go. Getting caught up in the 'game' can actually grossly impede your success with women, particularly when you're constantly questioning yourself.

The game, for the most part is a big joke. The only guys who follow it, particularly to the letter are social retards who can't think for themselves or have any faith that they may actually have something to offer a woman (So-called Game gurus know this and capitalize on it by selling these fools books, seminars, & DVDs).
smartest thing you've said on this board.
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