Then pay em!
Seriously, what's wrong with paying for sex?
If the amount of time some guys spend on "pick up" (or learning how) was actually spent running a business then those guys would have so much money that they could pay for quality sex for the rest of their lives.
Why spend all this time trying to "woo" some chick into having sex with you, ugh. Sounds like a second job, and I hate jobs for the very thing they imply... ie. an eternal and unwavering commitment to something you'd rather be without.
Paying for sex is so much easier, you just wave some money around, take them where-ever you want, bang the crap out of them, pay em, buhbye, they leave, no calls, no dates, no chitchat... easy peasy and it's just as good. In fact when I compare all the free sex I've had to the paid sex I've had... the paid sex was A LOT better. In fact I don't think I've ever really HAD sex until I started paying for it.
And it's all kosher really, legal, taxed, registered, no problems. Well unless you are one of those guys who buys into the whole psycho-nonsense where prostitutes are abused children that are only doing guys for money because they want to punish themselves and boohooblahblah BS!
That might be true if you're picking up 50$ bimbo's form the corner of the street with their pimp hiding behind the corner waiting to shove a switchblade under your nose, but I'm talking about QUALITY... $1000 or I wont even touch it. These women know what they're doing (oh boy, do they ever!), no-one is forcing them, and I've never seen one older than 30. Apparently they retire and live lush lives off the money they made banging guys like me. And if they don't like something you're doing, they just tell you to go f. yourself and leave (trust me I know!).
So no bad karma there!
Or maybe some of you are thinking you're going to find a worthy spouse and maybe a family in all this pick up stuff.
Well, I'm not really the guy to ask, but I seriously doubt it. Before I had the wit (and the money) to just BUY sex, I spent a good deal of time trying to do what most guys here are doing, and let me tell ya... all I ever found were chicks trying to marry money, chick wanting to bang you for money, and chicks more interested in chitchat and malls and diners and yadda yadda than sex. Screw that... I go out to be entertained, not entertain. If I'm going to talking to some chick she better have some interesting to say or be sucking my shlong while doing it. And frankly, most women have nothing interesting to say.
Sorry if the latter sounds sexist, this is my honest opinion. I'm a guy, and i like "guy stuff", I don't want to talk about nonsense just so I can get laid later (that's what money is for!).
I met MY wife at a business dinner. And she was great in every way a wife should be great... until she found out I was banging prostitutes and then left me (and took some of my money along with her)... meh, she earned it, and I don't mind her having it. The point is, prostitutes are still better at sex, and sometimes I like to have more than just one... and I only had one wife. Well anyway, the point is, I really don't think you're going to find your "soulmate" while picking up chicks... Besides, what makes you think she'll be able to satisfy you for years and years... people change during their lives and the only thing that keeps them together is facades, trying real hard and sometimes respect... but that's rare.
Or maybe you think that paying for sex is somehow "cheating"... or it degrades your self esteem because the women you're screwing don't ACTUALLY like you...
Well, I don't know what to say about that... It doesn't bother me at all. I just pay for a service. I want to have good sex, these women are great at it, they look great, smell great, so we make a deal. When they're all done they leave, I pay, everyone's happy and satisfied. Who got cheated?
Or you think prostitutes are "dirty"?... you mean more dirty than some chick you pick up somewhere just like that? Do you know what was in her mouth an hour ago before you stick you tongue in it? Well considering how easily you pick her up, I can venture a guess... Seriously at least the prostitutes have minty breath, which probably means they brushed their teeth after a BJ.... or they ate a breath-mint. I don't want to think about ti too much, or I'll ruin my appetite. You don't know and it's a risk either way, but there's something to be said about professionalism, so i still think I'm betting on the safer side of things.
Could I get laid if i wasn't paying for it? Pfff, I have no idea, I haven't tried for years. I used to get laid, not as often as I'd like, and certainly not as well as i would have liked, but I guess I got by... but that was me 10 years younger, less spoiled, prettier and much more poor... so probably not.
So what?
Hey look at it this way... If I ever screw up and lose all my money, I can still come back here and learn how to pick up chicks for free right?
Anyway,
I didn't mean to go on and on like i did, or promote prostitution (although what's wrong with talking about something that makes you happy, right?). I guess I'm just curious why young men are spending their time trying to get women into their beds, while you could be out there earning cold hard cash.
You know cash buys more than just women... a lot more. My old man is super super happy with some of the BD presents I've bought him the past few years (and no it wasn't a hooker, he's married, happily... go figure!).
Just wondering, no offense intended to anyone!
BUT, I came across this site looking for "hot babes", and I'm still looking for hot babes because I got an afternoon "itch" that just wont go away, (no it's not crabs, crabs is what you get when you cheap out on hired help), and I still got that itch so... the search must continue now...