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| Author: | esemes [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 11:14 am ] |
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By far the most difficult thing for me thus far, i have no difficulties approaching and building comfort with girls but often fail to get physical with them. My question though is, beside asking a girl if you could kiss her direct, which other workarounds work best to get to kiss her if any? Secondly, the getting laid part which probably is the most difficult for most of us, again how do i ask a girl for sex or how best can i tell her i am longing for body contact with her. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 11:28 am ] |
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Read up on Dicarlo's escalation ladder. You need to start touching immediately. Random touches, on her shoulder, leg, whatever, when you tease her or make a point. Hug her. Arm around her, etc. When you know it's on you can go direct, be honest and say you wanna kiss her. Don't ask her. |
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| Author: | esemes [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 11:52 am ] |
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thanks for your feedback but just wonder if there is the link to Dicarlo's escalation ladder. ? |
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| Author: | pablohernandez [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 12:04 pm ] |
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Really you should be able to tell when its time to kiss. And never ask for sex. Saying 'Your place or mine?' is fine but saying 'shall we have sex' is really needy sounding. Its about being able to feel when its right. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 1:16 pm ] |
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the-dicarlo-escalation-ladder-vt16552.html Physical escalation is one of those things that will make or break you getting her or being in the friend zone. Also, about the kiss, assume attraction always. You have to have the mindset of "She wants me, I know it." And the whole thing about closing, it's all physical escalation, you would never ask for sex. You would begin physical escalation and calibrate to her responses. The less you say the better. |
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| Author: | esemes [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 3:11 pm ] |
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Wow, thanks guys for the feedback and will try and put some of this to practice and see how far i get, again perfect practice makes it perfect. |
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