There's been a girl that I've been perusing for maybe, 4-6 years? It was all indirect because I was too bitch to "lose a friend" and make an awkward situation, and I don't remember exactly how long, but regardless, I had a party at my house tonight, but its all good, the girl that I was originally interested in brought a couple friends, one that I'd known for just as long, and one that actually came over to celebrate my 16th birthday, 6 years ago. She (my long existent crush) is a solid 6+ but shes too involved in her looks, IMO + been in a relationship for almost a year/is a total hussie. I played the push+pull game with her friend who is an 8+ and it worked out great!
) We ended up playing a game of chicken (essentially a 2 vs 2 piggy back mosh pit) in the pool without her, but the newer girl that caught my attention afterward seemed kinda interested in me. Maybe it was just because we were all a little drunk, but she gave the body language that she was into me, (deep conversations when we were alone about her work, and more in depth situational conflicts , playing with my hair, lying back in the reclining chair, touching my shoulder, etc.) Problem is that when we were in the full group, all 5, or 8 of us at one point, I could barely get her to pay any attention to me whatsoever, I don't have her number or anything, but I'm definitely interested in her. This is the first time in a few years that I can say I've really wanted to pursue a SPECIFIC girl. What would you do if you were me? I'm definitely gonna throw more of these "adult" pool parties in the not-so-distant future