It's only cheating if you tell them about it
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| Author: | MrMatt [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 4:18 am ] |
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Technically, Is it cheating if... You are not OFFICIALLY together? I'm pretty sure I'm in a relationship with a girl I like, but on the other hand, previous hookups and fuck friend still talks to me. Is it considered as cheating If I fuck them until my girl want to have "the talk". Would you? |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 4:28 am ] |
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No.....if there was no talk of monogamy, how can it be cheating? She could be fucking some other dude too so...yea. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 5:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is it cheating if... |
Quote: Technically,
Is it cheating if... You are not OFFICIALLY together? I'm pretty sure I'm in a relationship with a girl I like, but on the other hand, previous hookups and fuck friend still talks to me. Is it considered as cheating If I fuck them until my girl want to have "the talk". Would you? Not official until one of you brings it up. |
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| Author: | Chicoman69 [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 5:51 am ] |
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It's not cheating if you have a threeway with her best girlfriend and give her the angry/salty pirate... |
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| Author: | PureHavoc [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 6:38 pm ] |
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In my view, it's cheating if you would feel like you were cheated on if the other person did it to you. It's a general rule to live by. If you'd be ok with it, then it's ok for to go 'hang' with whoever you want. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 4:58 am ] |
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Quote: No.....if there was no talk of monogamy, how can it be cheating? She could be fucking some other dude too so...yea. Because most girls assume it when in a relationship?
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| Author: | DUbL-eS [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 8:42 am ] |
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It's only cheating if you tell them about it
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 2:13 pm ] |
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Why don't you talk about this, and decide after? If she wants to be exlusive and you don't then it certainly will hurt her even though you haven't talked about it yet. Then you just end it and that's all. If both of you wants to be exclusive then you won't need those fuck buddies for a while. If none of you, then there shouldn't be any trouble about this. |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 2:35 pm ] |
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It's cheating if you think it's cheating. That's the litmus test. You can hear 10,000 cliche's, explanations, mantras.... and it's all well and good - but it's ALL bullshit. YOU determine that feeling. If there's an expressed 'commitment' - then it's cheating... But at what stage? Kissing, fucking, touching, talking? YOU determine that. If you feel guilty - you have to wrestle that emotion and either dismiss it as false, or embrace it and find out why on an intrinsic level. For me - if there's no expressed verbalized commitment - I don't give a fuck. BUT - that's also subject to interpretation. I've not gamed a chick since meeting a woman at the beach. Haven't really had the desire - until now (she's done, she just doesn't know it yet). I'm also the guy that doesn't shy from the conversation. I've had a lady ask me about dating other people... if I was wanting to see other people... I answer without answering... "I tell you like this. I just met you,a nd think you're cool... But if you decide you want to go out with someone else, I'm OK with that. I know what I bring to the table, and what I offer - but I can't tell you what to do. So I say do what you want to do. We just met. I get that. For me, I'm in to you. I dig you." If she persists... I'll tell her "Build up your walls. If I can't knock them down, then this wasn't meant-to-be as it is..." You're being very non-informative, but saying precisely what she wants to ehar, yet saying nothing at all... and, strangely, it's worked WELL for a great number of years.... RR |
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