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PUA theories seem not natural for me. All the rules like no apologies, one liners, 100% condifence. I prefer natural way of leading relationship and everything else.
haha the natural way that has the divorce rate at 75%? 
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| Author: | sourcream86 [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | I was a dick to a girl. Should I say Im sorry? |
I was a stupid dick to a girl I like. When I was drunk I texted her this: Me: Call me again sweeetyyy Me: If you dont call me now delete my number Me: More shit Me: More shit 3 days later Her: hello Me: Hi Her: how are you? Me: fine, u? no answear Next day Me: Wazzap? Her: why did you text me "If you dont call me now delete my number"? Me: You disconnected my phone call. her: No, it was you. Me: Whatever. Could we forget about it or will my number get deleted for real? Her: You should think what you do and write when your drunk because it could hurt people. Me: Have I done this before to you? No respons. I was thinking of never talk to this girl after my shit but she texted me first. Can I recovery this? say Im sorry or should I leave it? Her interest tlevel is not so high anymore. Have fucked her already. You guys always give me good answears. I appreciate that! |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:55 am ] |
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Pretend it didn't happen and stop bringing it up.. If she does then ignore it and change the subject. Simple. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 8:27 pm ] |
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Quote: Pretend it didn't happen and stop bringing it up.. If she does then ignore it and change the subject. Simple. . You should apologize.
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| Author: | letmehandlethis [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:07 pm ] |
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Why an apologise is such a big deal? You should never throw it when you're not guilty or not have done anything wrong. However if you offended a human, told her some shit because she did not deserve that - apologise. Calling woman a bitch is acceptable when she's acting like one while calling woman a bitch when she did nothing wrong - apologise |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:25 pm ] |
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Sometimes the only way you are going to get some women is if you compromise. Sometimes that compromise is an apology For example: Its like if you have a sibling and you two get in an argument, at some point nothing is going to get done if you keep arguing. In fact, At some point who is right does not even matter. Its the same way with the republicans and democrats. Sometimes an apology is just a strategic thing. If you don't agree, get married one day and get into an argument...you might be right and if you keep arguing there is an a description of your situation: irreconcilible differences. Now, in this situation this guy just got insecure because the girl was not calling him not giving him his attention then he got upset because he could not take how that made him feel then he lashed out. |
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| Author: | letmehandlethis [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:29 pm ] |
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Perfectly said! It's a strategic move despite how you will look at it. However I don't apologise if I do not feel I should. Ever. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:47 pm ] |
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Quote: Perfectly said! It's a strategic move despite how you will look at it. However I don't apologise if I do not feel I should. Ever.
In Pick up, apologetic behavior is generally frowned upon because most guys that are nice are being nicer than they need to be because of insecurity. A weak man compromises when he does not have to, because of a lack of confidence. However, when you have evaluated the situation and have evaluated how strongly the woman feels. A wise man will compromise if he wants that women....Now, if you have options just be prepared for this not to work out. If you have options don't compromise. However, the pick up guideline of never be apologetic comes from the assumptionthat most men that become PUA's are being too nice or nice when its is not pragmatic. |
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| Author: | GKS [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:55 pm ] |
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Real men know how to apologize when he was clearly wrong about something. It takes guts and maturity to do so. |
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| Author: | letmehandlethis [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:57 pm ] |
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PUA theories seem not natural for me. All the rules like no apologies, one liners, 100% condifence. I prefer natural way of leading relationship and everything else. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:51 pm ] |
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Quote: PUA theories seem not natural for me. All the rules like no apologies, one liners, 100% condifence. I prefer natural way of leading relationship and everything else.
haha the natural way that has the divorce rate at 75%?
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| Author: | agentprovocateur [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 6:35 am ] |
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u sounded like a reactive little biotch. Act like nothing happened, don't apologize UNLESS she calls you out on it say "yea, I was PMSing mybad" without making a huge deal about it. |
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