Monday Evening.
Its the end of Exams and its Student Night at a club called Mercury.
So its expected that their is going to be one hectic and crowded night in this club.
I love my Clubbing, to me, clubbing is just one of the best ways to go out, and interact with people, especially the opposite sex. I love just dancing and going crazy, especially with woman on the dance floor
I got back in contact a few months ago with an old friend. I'll call her Zoitsa for personal reasons. Now back then I didn't really know her, we weren't really friends back in primary school, but when I saw a friend request from her on Facebook, I was stunned, she was my perfect 10. So I basically attacked her, Got in contact with her and started texting her etc. she invited me to go out clubbing with her, I figured out that she is one of those party animals so I said to myself, what the hell, lets do it.
So we went out, all was fine, "This was the first time I saw her in a while". Danced and chatted and blablabla, successful evening.
We kept a good relationship after that. But I didn't want more from her, not until a week before I had sex with her, which was a week before. That was about 3 weeks after we met up at that club. Anyway, after that we had a fight and things kinda faded. She then got a boyfriend, and now they having fat problems. She went out to this club "Mercury" and she was the last person I expected to see there.
Now after our fight, we basically stopped chatting, stopped seeing each other, but we both still had some kind of feelings, some kind of connection, that we both didnt speak of, even rarely showed. Monday night was my first night that I decided I'm going to try out my "Game" that I learned from the book "The game" I only got to about 150 pages into the book, so I wouldn't say I'ma pro yet. But I had enough knowledge to start with.
I told my best buddy "King", that if we accidentally run into Zoitsa at this club, that I'm going to crack and try and pick her up, regardless that she is with her boyfriend or not. As I learned anybody is an open target regardless if they taken or not. "With a married woman - ring doesn't close the hole"
And so, Murphy's law, She is there. Now I decided then, that im not going to run after her, I thought, look if she wants me, she would coming looking for me she would come greet me, etc.
And I was right there, the second I walked in the club and went to the table where the rest of my mates were, she pounced onto me, and gave me one fat hug and a kiss on the cheek.
I didn't know what to say or what to do, as this isn't what I expected from her. So I asked, "Where is your boyfriend?"
She said they not doing well, last week at a club, "Fez", he kissed another girl infront of me and walked away from me, blabla. There and then I knew, she was on a mission to get him back, even tho he wasnt there, she could still show pictures to him and be like look what you missed out kind of attitude.
And I was fine with whatever has happening.
I noticed the IOI's straight away, The way she kissed my cheek, the way she just grabbed my hand when I decided to neg her while I turned way to chat with the guy friend she was with, she even took my hand when she was taking photos with other guys. All the signs were there, all I had to do was move in and take her.
But the evening went on, and played hard to get. Danced with my mates, kept hooking randoms, at the bar, on the floor, etc. but when she spotted me on the dance floor and ran up to me to get me to dance with her, she gave me a hug, bit my neck and scratched my back, this chick was so DTF. She took me to her group of friends and I parked off in the middle of the circle and noticed, but these are guard dogs, these guys are all her boyfriends friends and they guarding this bitch. So just to test, I kissed her on the cheek and what do you know, I had these dudes patting me on the back saying no kissing, I whispered why do you have guard dogs? everything from there went down hill, I was uncomfortable dancing there and my buddy "King" noticed and came up to me and saved me from that mess.
He explained to me that she is playing me. She was playing the same game that I was playing with her, just she was incontrol, and i didnt like loosing so I played harder. I decided to ignore her completely, I didnt dance with her again nor talk to her, but I could tell from the corner of my eye that she was staring at me, She knew what happened. Time went by and we kinda danced up to each other, I had my back to her, and she tapped me on my back, ndd told me to come dance with her, from hand signals. I looked at her waved at her saying hi, and turned around and danced up to a chick and kept playing. I have no idea what her reaction was, but 10min after that she decided to go. I guess I won.
But here is this thing. Ive never been in situation like that, and I do still have feelings for her, havent spoken to her since and Im expecting to see her again tonight at another club "Assembly".
What do you suggest I do? You guys rate I just go for it? or play hard to get again?
Im also planning to try out my new moves, like openers, negs, routines etc.
Thnks
. bye!". That would be the worst case scenario, but still you will feel lots better then you do now.