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So I went to a local country pub earlier on today which was fairly empty. There was just two barmaids working, more notably a HB8, so I thought I'd chance it. I ordered my drink and had a minor conversation with her, this mainly being about the emptiness of the pub and such. I took a seat and rang my brother (who I hadn't spoken to in about two weeks.)
Anyway, the barmaid, to my shock actually approached me and asked if she could take a seat. I told my brother I'd call him back and commented on her rudeness as I was quite clearly on the phone. (Jokingly of course.)
She was basically asking me where I'm from etc. and how she hadn't seen me there before... I answered, but soon found myself completely stuck! I wanted to at least get her number but I completely flaked out.
I finished my drink and stood up to leave. For some reason, I still didn't ask for her number! She told me she'd be getting off at 10, but would be having a couple of drinks post this. She asked if I would come up to keep her company - which I accepted.
Basically, my question is this ... Obviously she is attracted to me, and I will go up there for about half 10, but how do I go about things?! Is it worth dressing up to a, say, Friday Night Sarging standard? Or just go casual?
Also, my intentions are to F-Close her, preferably back to hers. It's not necessarily the conversation itself I need help with, I just need something which could get me back to her place. I've never been in a situation like this in which I've thought about F-closing... usually it's just a kiss close and we arrange a date. But, honestly... I'm feeling horny as fuck!!
I need help!!
Hey mate,
You ask us if it is worth dressing up but actually you are the one that holds the answer: How would you feel the best? casual or not casual? Because your clothes will not make you more or less attractive (well, i do mean, wear nice clothes) but wether or not you feel good in them. How would you feel confident and at ease? Dress like that.
To answer your last question: its the hardest thing to do in pick up. It is showing your interest goes a little deeper then small talk (pun not intended). This is the time were you need to take some risk. There are multiple ways of doing this and key to them all is that you need to be confident that you are not doing anything wrong. You deserve to go for what you want.
First, while in conversation (you are going to start with convo anyway), amp up the kino. touch her ever once and a while, then amp it up, touch more and at more sexual places. So, not from shoulder to breast, but more from arm, to knee, to shoulder to tie, etc, etc. When she becames aware of your touches and withdraws, go back one step and start over again. Until you just look her in the eyes and go in for the kiss. From there, go to the more sexual places, like upper tie and inner tie (no pussy yet amigo), her belly and ass. escalate from there.
Watch Gamblers 'stealth seduction'. I liked it quite a lot.
Secondly is just saying what you want. I prefer this the most, because it is more straightforward. For me it is important to know who i am going to fuck. That is why i always need to know the girl in front of me. Is she passionate, what are her dreams, what does she like? Etc, is she jalous, is she going to give me a hard time when i leave her, is she confident that she can get men or is she feeling lucky and will she clamp on me? When i know enough,
just in the middle of the conversation, i would shut her up, look her in the eyes and tell her: i think you are smoking hot / sexy . I want to have sex with you. You turn me on. its all or nothing now. Do it with confidence for more effect, but its ok when your voice shakes a bit. Believe me, just the sheer fact that you told her what is on your mind will make you feel incredible, like a boss! i would even say.... like a Hugo Boss (:o No he di' int!!!).
Its all up to you. In the end, it doesnt matter what or how you do it. What does matter is that you should not go home without even trying.
cheers and good luck!
