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| Author: | hybmg123 [ Mon Jun 18, 2012 9:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help! Flaky girl at work |
Hi guys, I have this girl (coworker) and I asked her out on a lunch last Friday via email (as she works at home on that day) and she said yes but called in sick today (Monday). She also said once she will buy a gift for me and asked me what I want This girl rarely calls in sick. What could be the reason? Is this a sure sign that she is disinterested? What should I do tomorrow? |
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| Author: | Baxter [ Mon Jun 18, 2012 9:58 am ] |
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She is a 9 but she is also your coworker. Be carefull, it's kind of social circle game! Go out for lunch with a coworker is something normal, you don't need a lot of compliance from your coworkers to do that. Not a big IOI. So keep it casual, don't look interested in her (active disinterest) but DHV! Do what you normally do when you lunch with a Bro. During the conversation, try to know how is her relationship with her BF. |
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| Author: | hybmg123 [ Mon Jun 18, 2012 12:19 pm ] |
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Cool man. Do you think there's an IOI from her? |
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| Author: | Baxter [ Mon Jun 18, 2012 12:51 pm ] |
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Quote: Cool man. Do you think there's an IOI from her?
I have to say "no" to not fool you...You know have lunch with coworkers is something normal, it don't need a big level of compliance. Maybe she already done that with others coworkers, males or females. In example, i'm a medical student and i'm naturally friendly. If I ask to every HB9 I know in my class if she is interested in having lunch with me, i'm pretty sure to have a high level of positive response because i don't ask her to kiss me or date me, just have lunch... It's a lunch, not a date: you lunch with bros, family, coworkers,... It's being social. Assume that it's not a IOI, continue DHV and active disinterest. |
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| Author: | hybmg123 [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 8:27 am ] |
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Hey mate she now told me she was sick and she now asked me to go for lunch tomorrow. |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 8:37 am ] |
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Say "OKAY. Tomorrow it is." But make your intent known. Don't do this Mystery Method HORSESHIT unless its congruent to you being an asshole / playing hard to get. Personally, I see no need for it. |
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| Author: | hybmg123 [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 10:17 am ] |
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Hey I was gonna to ESP, 5 question game and then Cube at the end. Of course they will be mixed in during conversation about relationships in general and some NLP. Is this a good plan? |
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| Author: | hybmg123 [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 10:24 am ] |
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Also. Do I pay for lunch or dutch? |
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| Author: | hybmg123 [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 11:32 am ] |
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Any advice would be appreciated guys... |
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