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There is a new receptionist at my gym, she is a HB8. After leaving my gym card at home a few times she has had to enter my name in the system. She now greets me by name when I come and go. Other then greetings we have not spoke. I'm generally a little shy but today I decided to man up and talk to her, after my workout I walked over and we started talking about our history and what we did now etc. I believe we both enjoyed each others company and after about 15min of talking I didn't get a number close. Should I asked for her number? How should I make my next move? I would appreciate any suggestions for taking things to the next level. Apologies in advance for any spelling/gramatical errors.

Regards
Easypickings.

EDIT: What are some "smooth ways" to get her number?

Author:	Easypickings [ Sun Jun 17, 2012 6:04 am ]
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There is a new receptionist at my gym, she is a HB8. After leaving my gym card at home a few times she has had to enter my name in the system. She now greets me by name when I come and go. Other then greetings we have not spoke. I'm generally a little shy but today I decided to man up and talk to her, after my workout I walked over and we started talking about our history and what we did now etc. I believe we both enjoyed each others company and after about 15min of talking I didn't get a number close. Should I asked for her number? How should I make my next move? I would appreciate any suggestions for taking things to the next level. Apologies in advance for any spelling/gramatical errors. Regards Easypickings. EDIT: What are some "smooth ways" to get her number?

Author:	LBot [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 2:53 pm ]
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Is your gym in Auckland? I can go get her number and um errrrr give it to you

Author:	Bob_Dobalina [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 9:04 pm ]
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I'm new here, still lots to learn but I don't think 15 minutes is nearly long enough man. I would talk to her for at least 45 minutes, if she doesn't offer a number in that time then I think you blew it. I normally get a number within 30 minutes of targeting a bitch.

Author:	PerfectTruth [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 9:23 pm ]
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lol. don't think thats what he was looking for...

Author:	Ten74 [ Tue Jun 19, 2012 11:24 pm ]
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15 mins is more than enough to ask her # if you built attraction. Say: "Hey what's you're number so we can have a few real drinks without the protein some other time?" Or something to that respect. But, you must be confident and be pretty sure of yourself... you don't sound it very much in your post. Quote: I would talk to her for at least 45 minutes 45 minutes!! Dude she's working.... you'll talk that long and longer on your D1 if you get her # and secure the meet

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Author:	Bob_Dobalina [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 8:38 pm ]
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Once that whore see's my loveliness she'll forget all about work. Most women tell me that I am all they can see once I start my game.

Author:	Ten74 [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 8:43 pm ]
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Quote: Once that whore see's my loveliness she'll forget all about work. Most women tell me that I am all they can see once I start my game. If that's the case... Do you need 45 mins to get a number?

Author:	letmehandlethis [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 10:04 pm ]
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Even a few minutes are ok to build something. Simply ask for it when you will feel so - not when some time has passed. If you feel ok asking for a number after 1 minute - good, after 10 minutes - great. Who cares, just enjoy the conversation and lead it naturally.

Author:	agentprovocateur [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 6:34 am ]
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Quote: There is a new receptionist at my gym, she is a HB8. After leaving my gym card at home a few times she has had to enter my name in the system. She now greets me by name when I come and go. Other then greetings we have not spoke. I'm generally a little shy but today I decided to man up and talk to her, after my workout I walked over and we started talking about our history and what we did now etc. I believe we both enjoyed each others company and after about 15min of talking I didn't get a number close. Should I asked for her number? How should I make my next move? I would appreciate any suggestions for taking things to the next level. Apologies in advance for any spelling/gramatical errors. Regards Easypickings. EDIT: What are some "smooth ways" to get her number? Establish more comfort, talk about mutual interests. Drop a hint that you've always wanted to try something new (e.g., you both love Indian food "OMG I've totally been meaning to try that new Indian place over at XYZ..." and introduce notion "we should totally hit up that place"). Talk with her a bit more before asking for a number, a number isn't anything really to be honest but if you work on solidifying some rapport, make her laugh, get her on her toes a bit she'll likely give you her number with intent on hanging.

Author:	Easypickings [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 6:45 am ]
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Thanks lads! Got the number used a combination of the advice on this. New to the forum and loving it so far!

Author:	DUbL-eS [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 8:34 am ]
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"You seem interesting. Do you wanna get some coffee or something?" ^ Direct & Confident. It doesn't matter what you say after the "you seem interesting" part, but it is ALWAYS better to time bridge than to just get the number without a day 2 plan. A better way of doing this is to invite her to do something that you guys were just talking about in your conversation

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