Girl calls and texts me this morning that she is going out for a few drinks tonight and wants me to come.

The thing is she has a boyfriend and it seems like a white elephant. She doesnt mention him to me and I dont know if theyre still going out etc.

I dont know whether this 'boyfriend' will be there and if he is there i wont be able to handle the situation.

Do i ask her whether her boyfriend will be there etc?

Or shall I just tell her it aint a good idea if i come etc.

Thanks - urgent too.

I personally don't mess with chicks with boyfriends. Bad karma. However since she invited you she either sees you as a friend or that boyfriend isn't that important to her. Go feel out the situation a bit and then just leave if it's not to your liking.