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| Author: | ThanatosX [ Sat Jun 16, 2012 10:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | I am very lost... |
Ok...Title says it all... I am very new to all this and tried it out cause a friends recommended this to me. I am very desperate. I have never had a girlfriend ever. I have no idea on how to initiate and so on. I don't know how to talk and what to say. KIndly start me off with a few pointers? Anyone kind enough to do so? Criticisms are taken as well... 
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| Author: | KimPa [ Sat Jun 16, 2012 11:05 am ] |
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No magic pills here mate, but to become a master at anything you need to start from the beginning. Try the newbie mission. That will be your first step. the-newbie-mission-vt41556.html |
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| Author: | LD [ Sat Jun 16, 2012 12:30 pm ] |
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Hey mate and welcome. The only thing i can say to you is what i have done some years ago. I started reading, shortly after i started trying out. Some of the stuff is going to look weird and counter intuitive. Still, you should at least give that material a shot as well, only to know what it is. PUA is about changing yourself. Therefor, two more pointers: When changing yourself, there will be fear. Fear for what will come, fear for what others will think, fear for what others (mainly women then) will think and how they will react. There is only you in conquering this fear. No book, cd, audiotrack or anything else will do it for you. If you dont want to face the fear, dont start. You will never make it. PUA can lead to a serious emotionfuck. So be sure that you know yourself, who you are and what you want. Thoroughly. Learn about yourself and your emotions, learn how to control yourself. This is the hardest part and its like perfection, it is something you can never fully achieve. Nonetheless, it is very important. Good luck! if you have questions, shoot. Questions about things you did and experienced will receive more attention then those 'hey i read something and i want to show that i read it by asking a question about it things.' 
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| Author: | juvx [ Sat Jun 16, 2012 2:32 pm ] |
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This PUA stuff is about bettering your self first. How you look how you act and finally it will Change how you think. Once that happens there is no going back. You can use a lot of the material not just on girls but in life, school, work etc. confidence is the secret to a lot of things. A lot will seem unnatural at first and not you. But it works... If you believe it, it will work and after a while you will see it as NORMAL and it becomes you. Keep in mind most of us have had problems with getting girls at one point that's why we are here... I guarantee ALL of us have gotten better at it just by reading some of this material. So read material, search PUA on YouTube and watch them in action. Notice how they are not super good looking? Doesn't matter. Also do the noobie challenge and in fact always do it whereever you go say hi to everyone that you make eye contact with not just girls. Talk to random people. Good luck , cheers. |
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