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| Author: | hustler101 [ Sat Jun 16, 2012 6:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Your previous mistakes and how you overcame them! |
It be interesting to find out what everyone's previous mistakes were. As I grow with pick up I continue to learn about myself as well. As I found out, a lot of these mistakes are multi layered, what I mean by that is it might be a bad behavior, a belief or part of your identity. For example last year I discovered that I was making the mistake of "Trying to build attraction by talking about LOVE" thus putting her in the long term category. Now this might be alright to some but considering I was doing this in a club, Its a bad habit. Now I realize the reason I was doing this is because I was scared to do sexual enuendo that hints of an idea of a 1 night stand. I fixed this error by being more sexually direct on girls. Another error in my game I found a while back (and yes I still do it sometimes) is going on dates without a strong intention or outcomed plan, and letting the conversation track slip into general stuff like "How much does a horse cost" or "How to get your motorcycle license". I realized as a general rule for a seducer you can't let the woman lead the conversation because most women won't lead it to a place where you can easily transition into an attraction routine, they will lead it to some stupid shit they've seen on TV. This error in my game I believe depends on my day... if I'm having a low energy day and I got a date scheduled today well what can I do? Recently I found that going SARGING right before the actual date helps a bit as it pumps you up and wakes you up, also it lets you know how your game is tonight by the reactions you get from girls. However one bloody mistake I'm still struggling with is turning girls down, saying no to girls when it comes to seeing them, and making myself available too much, and waiting too long before making a decision. A lot of these things can be changed, like whistling at girls and once you know its bad you stop doing it, but a lot blocks are inherited deep within us as primary archetypes. A good way to overcome this part of you thats inherited in your identity and that's turning women off is though practice. It be nice to hear your mistakes and how you overcame them! |
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