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| Author: | The Drake [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 9:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | EYE CONTACT - Over-rated here? Showing no eye contact works |
I keep seeing posts here from people saying always maintain eye contact with girls. I do the opposite though I don't hold any eye contact in the university I am in and I get great results from it. Girls try and put themselves in my gaze they try and make themselves noticeable to me when I just walk with total confidence and look ahead not acknowledging them and hold the eye contact with me and I ignore it and it builds up the attraction. Or I acknowledge them for a brief second, they smile and I just look away head held high without smiling back. Why would you smile at the girl appearing cold will attract them more? Girls can't understand why this guy is showing no attention when they get it off every other guy. I have a HB9.5 puzzled as hell as to why I show no attention and when I see her in a club who does she come to grind on? Maybe in an area where you see the same girl all the time this technique works but in a one off seeing a girl situation that is when you should make eye contact and hold it until they stop looking at you? I stand out from the crowd and girls remember me, they try harder, preen harder doing what they can for acknowledgement. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 10:20 pm ] |
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I don't like eye contact because sometimes I just don't want to look at her...attraction can throw you off. |
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| Author: | agentprovocateur [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 12:56 am ] |
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Not making eye contact infers a lack of confidence. Always hold eye contact, but also know when to break it so as not to look like a weirdo. As a general guide you can make eye contact when you're speaking with her, but break it (look somewhere off her shoulder/side of face) when she's speaking. |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 1:49 am ] |
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Seems from this post that you haven't kissed many girls. If you did you would know how important eye contact is. Holding constant eye contact may seem weird. Not holding eye contact at all shows your not interested in her or a lack of confidence. Moderation is the success. If you don't hold enough eye contact at first the girl will get attracted to you because you didn't give her much attention. She will try a few times but after she does it few times she will see it as a sign of ignoring and will not want to look needy and work more to hold your attention. |
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