PUA Forum :: I am going to do my first pick up in years tomorrow... Help

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You are setting yourself up for failure.

You don't make progress by picking your target out a week in advance, and then finding the courage to "pick her up". (That's assuming she's even there. Taking a bus in the hopes that a girl you haven't even talked to will be on it? Dude. Come on.)

Just start making conversation with more people. Start with people who "have to" talk to you: cashiers, salespeople, waitresses. Get used to it. Then work your way up to just saying "hi" to strangers. Don't think about picking up at first. Just overcome your fear of talking to people.

Again, if you put this much time and energy into a girl you saw on a bus one week ago, you are not going to have the smoothness and confidence to pull it off. Instead, put smaller amounts of energy into a lot of different people.

No, I have to. She is a special girl.

Author:	Sub_Zero [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 2:45 am ]
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I have not been the best forum friend here. I am a bitter and lonely beta. I went my frustrations on the only place I can, the Internet. But this time I really need your help. I saw a girl one week ago, this very day. It was in the buss. I am going to take the same buss, same time, same place in case she is there. What do I do? Do I say Hi and ask for her number? Í also have an appoitnment and would like to keep it all short, like 5 minutes... How do I do this? Please help me, Karma will repay you.

Author:	Verite [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 3:15 am ]
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"There has never been a thought so great that it needed to be wrapped with so much care. Discard your need for perfection"

Author:	vcwriter [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 4:29 am ]
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You are setting yourself up for failure. You don't make progress by picking your target out a week in advance, and then finding the courage to "pick her up". (That's assuming she's even there. Taking a bus in the hopes that a girl you haven't even talked to will be on it? Dude. Come on.) Just start making conversation with more people. Start with people who "have to" talk to you: cashiers, salespeople, waitresses. Get used to it. Then work your way up to just saying "hi" to strangers. Don't think about picking up at first. Just overcome your fear of talking to people. Again, if you put this much time and energy into a girl you saw on a bus one week ago, you are not going to have the smoothness and confidence to pull it off. Instead, put smaller amounts of energy into a lot of different people.

Author:	Sub_Zero [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 6:21 pm ]
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Quote: You are setting yourself up for failure. You don't make progress by picking your target out a week in advance, and then finding the courage to "pick her up". (That's assuming she's even there. Taking a bus in the hopes that a girl you haven't even talked to will be on it? Dude. Come on.) Just start making conversation with more people. Start with people who "have to" talk to you: cashiers, salespeople, waitresses. Get used to it. Then work your way up to just saying "hi" to strangers. Don't think about picking up at first. Just overcome your fear of talking to people. Again, if you put this much time and energy into a girl you saw on a bus one week ago, you are not going to have the smoothness and confidence to pull it off. Instead, put smaller amounts of energy into a lot of different people. No, I have to. She is a special girl.

Author:	Crypto [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 6:25 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: You are setting yourself up for failure. You don't make progress by picking your target out a week in advance, and then finding the courage to "pick her up". (That's assuming she's even there. Taking a bus in the hopes that a girl you haven't even talked to will be on it? Dude. Come on.) Just start making conversation with more people. Start with people who "have to" talk to you: cashiers, salespeople, waitresses. Get used to it. Then work your way up to just saying "hi" to strangers. Don't think about picking up at first. Just overcome your fear of talking to people. Again, if you put this much time and energy into a girl you saw on a bus one week ago, you are not going to have the smoothness and confidence to pull it off. Instead, put smaller amounts of energy into a lot of different people. No, I have to. She is a special girl. Dude, what makes her special? I mean Most girls have a Vagina!

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Author:	vcwriter [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 6:14 am ]
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You're not a hopeless case. 9/10 odds that you don't see this girl again. In the chance you do see her, 9 out of 10 you creep her out by coming off as completely unnatural. After you blow it, don't be so ashamed as to come back here and say "those guys on the forums were right". We're actually trying to help you. When you're actually ready to listen, we'll be here to help.

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