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| Author: | bartm [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 3:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I know the theory, but never apply it |
Hi through my reading, I have learned a lot of things that you are supposed to do and not do. but then when I go out there, I am the same old afc and never apply any of these. example: I am not supposed to say what I do for a living. I am supposed to say something vague. Like I am a professional baseball watcher. I have known this for a long time. but then yesterday this girl asked me what i do and i gave her a direct answer. told her exactly what i do. or I am supposed to qualify her. but then i never do. or I am not supposed to interview her, but then the next girl i see, i start interviewing her. I am the same old afc I was. why cant i apply what i learn to real life? |
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| Author: | Eyyt [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 3:40 pm ] |
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Coz you're nervous, mate. Know how to flirt, "never give a girl a straight answer" remember? Another, you should spend 1/4 of your time learning the theories and the remaining 3/4 should be infield. enjoy the conversation. Hint: You should install this to your mind "you are not hitting on them. you are there to enjoy". trust me. this will help you. fuck those theories. they are only teaching you on how but it is YOU who should do IT! There is no magic words or magic pill for PU. it is only a game. dont be frustrated. LOVE THE GAME. work.on your inner game and you will see wonders. Theories, patterns, routines etc. only HELPS. but they don't bring you success. honestly, if you think too much, those routines will fuck you up during the conversation. Just enjoy it, use routines sparringly but dont make them your ONLY way to PU.There is more on YOU. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 4:35 pm ] |
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See the thing is you have memorized all the theory, and now when you go into the real world you try to draw from the theory. However, it is paradoxical, because to be practical and for this to work you have to forget the theory when talking to a girl. There is a certain mentality that creates this "theory" naturally. It is pretty much being unapologetic in what you say (unless what you said truly is something bad, in which case you apologize like a man would), having fun, being persistent but also uncaring whether or not she likes you. Should you qualify her? Should you screen her? Should you neg her? All of this will fuck you up. You KNOW the theory, now FORGET it. You can tell a girl what you do, no problem. I straight up tell them "I don't go to uni right now, but will in September". So? Did it create or annihalate attraction? I dunno, I don't care. The fact that I don't care created attraction, however. Just be a human being, have a conversation with this person, have some fun with this person. You know what to look for. Now do it, WITHOUT APOLOGIZING. |
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| Author: | debovnik [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 5:45 pm ] |
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change the people you hang about with its the people your around that stops you applying it hang about with people with game support people with their own game this helps you come from an abundance mindset give and you will receive. |
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