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Author:  CarlosAmaya [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:55 pm ]
Post subject:  One night failure
So guys... i was out last night and confront a problem, i went with a friend(girl) to a nightclub, but she was with her boyfriend and my gf couldn't come. So i felt really alone in that place and even thought there were people i know around, i'm not good connecting at party's, there was this girl that was dancing with a friend and he pass her to me, but we only dance like 30 seconds and she like said "i have to go to the bathroom" and my friend just said to me "she doesn't want with you, she wants with me, but i have my gf". And not just with him, it happen a couple of times. I consider and i am consider very atractive to women, some have even recall that i have "a sexy voice" but i thing my problem is that i don't have the essencial to get girls or meet people at party's, maybe it could be the way i dance i really don't know. Do you guys thing dancing is important?
Author:  Eyyt [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 4:12 pm ]
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It is not about the dancing stuff, mate. Its all about how you interacted with her. You didn't show enough DHV's to keep her interested in you. Maybe she liked your friend but still, you could outgame him. You should have taken her to the bar or lead her to a comfortable place in the club. I think it is your inner game that has a problem here. I mean, be confident with your 'sexy voice' make it something that women will always crave, make it something that will make them wet. You just need something to hold on. Be your best self, dude. Practice your game everywhere. Although you did a goodjob because you have a gf. :)
Author:  CarlosAmaya [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 4:35 pm ]
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Yeah you're right, i should start going more often to night clubs, i found that there is tha part where i'm stuck. Maybe i should get a wing and well... practice makes the master.
Author:  debovnik [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 6:47 pm ]
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learn to be more sociable

that way you can talk to the people around you, instead of being in your small little group. It gives you options and an opportunity to get social proofed
Author:  Wilso [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 7:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: One night failure
Well from what I read it seems that you already have a monogamous relationship. So should you be that concerned about whether other girls find you as attractive as your friend or not? If you want to 'play the field' then you shouldn't be in what the girl thinks to be an exclusive thing, remember that you should always leave girls better than when you met them mate.
Regarding you're point to socialising at the clubs, you say that you already know people there so don't hesitate in going up to them and just opening them with 'Hi, how have you been?' when people are intoxicated even if you're only slightly acquainted it is still incredibly easy to open them, and i'd recommend that you do this especially if they are women. (Pre-selection) then hopefully they are with people that you don't know and then you already have a level of rapport with them.
To be honest, that girl obviously wasn't interested in you, but you're not going to win them all, and you should just have fun with it, as that is what I believe pick-up should be. There is simple club dance videos on youtube that you can watch and surely you have reasonable skills with talking to women if you can get a girl friend so you're not totally useless.
Good Luck with your future endeavours mate .

-Wilso
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