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Author:  Don Diego de la vega [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 2:53 pm ]
Post subject:  I need advice BADLY
Hi guys!
Ill start of by telling a little about myself.
Im 18, tall, pretty good looking, i dress well and I work out a lot so I have a pretty fit body.
To clarify you should know that I don't have AA
So the problem doesn't lie in any of this

My problem is, what do I do after I have approached and opened a girl or a group?

Ill give you an example of what happened about a week ago:

I was with my friend when I saw these two HB's (6 and 8 ) and I insisted on us talking to them, but my friend chickened out and waited while I went over to talk to them.

So I walk over to the two girls who were sitting on a bench having ice cream.
I interrupted their conversation by excusing myself and saying "Can I ask you girls a question" At first they looked at each other with an expression that was saying "Who the hell is he, and what does he want?".
I figured that they had a feeling that I would hit on them with a lame pick-up line so as i sat next to them, i said, "I know this is a little weird of me asking you this, but I have this friend who has problem with his girlfriend and now he doesn't know what to do (I said something about her cheating on him). Im on my way to see him and I would like to hear your opinion on this, as girls."

The HB's CLEARLY loosened up when they realised that I wasn't trying to hit on them, and the HB6 (who was a little more confident) started telling me what she would have done if she had been in the same situation and after a while the HB8 started talking too.
So as they were talking i listened and I would ask a couple questions to what they where saying.

After a while when the conversation was about to die out I stood up and said " I have to go know, but thanks for the advice, bye" they said "bye" and then I left.

Of course the reason i just stood up and left was because I didn't know what to do next.


So, again, what do I do after I have approached and opened a girl or a group?
Author:  Sparroww [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:54 pm ]
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Transition. Pick up on something they say and run with it. Or start making assumptions.

Example: Thank you all a lot for the advice, by the way, I can't help noticing how you're dressed, you seem really well put together. Are you an artist of any kind? You just put off this artistic vibe.
Author:  Eyyt [ Sun Jun 10, 2012 4:01 pm ]
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you could have done the bestfriends test (the how do you know each other question) or you could have used your own tactic to stay in the set while not appearing needy.

Ex.
You (while leaving then turn your head to HB8): hey, i just noticed, i see that you wear a ring in your X finger (then proceed to the ring routine)

or if you dont feel doing that routine you could improvise

You: I see that you are the bad one and the good one (based on their answers)

then cold read one of them. if you want, you can palm read the HB6 while intriguing the HB8. That way, you can isolate her saying "lets see what is hidden in that smile. seems like you have many...hmmm... instead of saying this, i would like to do it" isolate then do the cube(you need a wing if you feel isolating the target to keep the obstacle busy).

thats it. you can take the next steps by yourself. all you need to do is relax. (sorry for the bad grammar though) :)
Author:  electric gypsy [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 12:52 am ]
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i would probably say something along the lines of this after they answered your question:

well thanks for the advice, but i really dont have a friend in need of advice, i came over here cus you guys are pretty hot and i just wanted to meet you lol, what are your names?
Author:  Don Diego de la vega [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 11:02 am ]
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Thanks for the advice guys, ill try and see if i can make it work next time.
though i would probably not tell them that they're hot since I by that would give my "power" away.
Author:  debovnik [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 6:01 pm ]
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Keep talking.

Talk about everything and anything.

Make better eye contact so they know its a sexual interaction ie get the sexual tension going

The truth is, you can talk about absolutely ANYTHING and have it work, so long as the sexual tension is there, which is a subtle thing

Get in the mindset to talk about anything and you'll find yourself able to do it.
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