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| Author: | 90909 [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 12:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | HB8 "Plunged in at the deep, steamy end" Help? |
Hey guys First off, I've never #, @ or k closed anyone before. I started to apply pua law to my interaction a month back and so far my social life has become much more pleasurable but still no action. Recently I've got talking to someone after the added me on fb and applying my text game 1st time its ramped right up. We're onto proper texts now but here's the nub: I get very nervous This is really the sole reason I haven't got any action. Attraction etc is fairly easy for me without PUA methods and I've never failed to attract initially but alas I was friendzoned every time bar once but even then I didn't move her. I'm 17 now and fed up of not being foward and not having the experiences that should come naturally. My questions are thus: The nerves thing is my only major balwark. Just thinking about things can set of physical reaction such as shaking. I have gotten into the zone before but even then it was a little tricky. If you could offer some tried and tested stuff for overcoming these bastards then I'd be greatful as I want to move this interaction into face to face The second question is, how should someone who has never kissed etc but can handle himself fairly well go about day ones and twos? This person who I've got on text is HB 8-9 and so far she is chasing me (my frame) but Miieey Gawd if I met her in person well hmm I'm not sure how I'd get on. BTW I'm expanding my social circle in order to create this abundance mentality which so far as I can tell removes a lot of pressure and lowers nerves. Thirdly, we've never met and only text chatted so far but its very flirty. I don't think calling is a great idea yet, should I arrange a casual meet then call after and keep to texts now? I favour this because I am genuinely qualifying this person and to call up seems a bit too much investment for now. On the other hand it could be nerves Cheers for reading, the nerves are my most pressing worry. Yours PinchGuitar |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 2:01 pm ] |
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I feel your pain, I had many a situation like this years ago (I still get AA often) but I push myself through it. If you wait too long to F2F with this girl she will probably next you...You do realize that you can have the same exact conversations IRL that you are having in chat right? As far as being nervous, only time and approaching/socializing will help to cure that. Peace... |
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| Author: | 90909 [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 2:18 pm ] |
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Merci! Its no biggie, I'm actually in a really good space owing to my recent success in all fields but the thing is text game allows time to consider responses, normally it takes me five minutes and I wait a bit depending on the feel of the interaction i.e., I am getting perfect replies but I'm not sure I can hold up the verbal end. But I'm positive that I'm going to get good results from this one as within a month I've gone from needy, ignorant AFC to someone who consistently gets positive chat results and is always being told I'm good looking. |
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