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Author:  Zolstice [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  Girl that dumped me wants me back
Two week ago my girlfriend dumped me.

She kept texting me afterwards while I played it cold.

She said she wanted to talk in person to fix things today, we met up and she said she changed her mind. As I was walking away I fought the urge to look back and she texted me when I was 50m away saying she's sorry, I said I didn't accept it, and then she said to please come back.

I went back, she said she wanted to know why I didn't accept her apology. I said she is a terrible person for playing with my heart. That every time she texts me, it's like a glimmer of hope we would get back together. After that, I turned and walked away.

Ten minutes later she texts me and says she doesn't want me to forget about her because she wants to get back together and that she doesn't want to admit she's wrong.

What should I do now? I have all the power :)
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 7:50 am ]
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If u want her accept her, if not move on.
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 8:08 am ]
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You're a pussy.

I hope you don't take that in the wrong way.
Author:  MountainMan [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 8:19 am ]
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Tell her off. It will make life so much easier..
Author:  CountRedRover [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 9:29 am ]
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friends with ben
Author:  Jjjazzj4 [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 5:03 pm ]
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i vote friendzone her.
Author:  league [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 5:24 pm ]
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i vote tell her to do one and not bother with women that are gonna just mess you about
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 5:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl that dumped me wants me back
Quote:
Two week ago my girlfriend dumped me.

She kept texting me afterwards while I played it cold.

She said she wanted to talk in person to fix things today, we met up and she said she changed her mind. As I was walking away I fought the urge to look back and she texted me when I was 50m away saying she's sorry, I said I didn't accept it, and then she said to please come back.

I went back, she said she wanted to know why I didn't accept her apology. I said she is a terrible person for playing with my heart. That every time she texts me, it's like a glimmer of hope we would get back together. After that, I turned and walked away.

Ten minutes later she texts me and says she doesn't want me to forget about her because she wants to get back together and that she doesn't want to admit she's wrong.

What should I do now? I have all the power :)
Don't be fooled, she still has the power and you let her know it. What's happening here is that she's yo-yoing you ("I want you/I don't want you") to keep you at bay so she can satiate her ego needs, albeit at your expense). You telling her that she gives you a glimmer of hope upon texting you only verifies this for her. The "doesn't want me to forget about her" comment is sanctimonious melodrama; simply put, she knows how to push your buttons to reel you back in.

My advice to you would be to seek something healthy, with somebody else.
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