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| Author: | PUA Hopeful [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Self conscious... |
I might be being paranoid here.... At work and in general I'm a very "jokey" guy, not very serious. Coming out with witty remarks that people laugh at. They say that work is boring without me... But i occasionally feel like i'm being laughed AT and not with.... Almost like the class clown... I don't acted stupid or do stupid things, i just joke about things to entertain myself, would you say this is being a class clown?? Also there is one girl that i generally joke about with (Not into her but almost practicing game) I'm kind of trying cocky funny, me teasing alot, sexual innuendo's and she has opened up about her sexual fantasies, weirded places she had sex etc. But she see's me as innocent, she thinks i'd never have a 1NS.... and i'm sure she sees me as a friend... (I'm not going to escalate because i'm not into her, But do you think that escalation is the only thing that is needed with her) Also What else is needed for cocky funny? Much Appreciated |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Self conscious... |
Quote: I(I'm not going to escalate because i'm not into her, But do you think that escalation is the only thing that is needed with her)
WTF? Is she that ugly? Escalate HER!
Also What else is needed for cocky funny? Much Appreciated |
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| Author: | PUA Hopeful [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:14 pm ] |
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Dude, I'm not escalating with her, i have to work with her and it has been said "Don't shit where you eat" or something like that, therefore there is no escalation, I would just like clarification on whether what i'm doing "Cock funny" is the correct way of doing it... |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:27 pm ] |
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Cocky & Funny is always the way! But you must transition from there is my point |
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| Author: | PUA Hopeful [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:44 pm ] |
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Yeah, The transition= Just escalating? or being more serious? P.S I support single mums aswell (Y) |
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| Author: | agentprovocateur [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:50 pm ] |
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A (Activating event/trigger): People laughing at work B (Belief): "They're laughing AT me...I MUST be a clown" C (Consequence/behavior/emotion): Embarrassment, sad, 'small' D = Disputing irrational thoughts and beliefs. E = Cognitive and Emotional effects of revised beliefs Sit for a moment and think of D (evidence that shows they're laughing at your jokes, not you). E will follow as a natural consequence of revised belief (e.g., "other people have remarked that I am funny", "when I am at work I seem to brighten people's day" etc...). Notice how the new, or revised belief alters your behavior. Congratulations, you've just done REBT (Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy). Checks in the mail. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 6:18 pm ] |
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haha why do you care bro ?  What is most important is you are bringing joy and excitement into you're work place and people enjoy it when you are around or else they would be bored to death. Enjoy making everyone else day and don't concern yourself with what may be occurring under their tops; everyone has their own issues 
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 6:22 pm ] |
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Is this person in a position that would effect your job? |
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| Author: | PUA Hopeful [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 8:08 pm ] |
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Agent Thankyou, I Think??.... Eddie, Yes i may brighten there day up, but a clown brightens the day up aswell... And i do not want to be classed as the clown/Performer. (I will reiterate, i don't act stupid i do just make funny comments, very in the moment, whatever comes to mind) Heywood... She is Assistant manage, so if anything happened and went bad it would fuck my job up. Just to clarify The Innuendo's, teasing and all that, is that classed as C&F??? And escalating is the difference between being "friendly" and being more?? Much Appreciated |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 8:36 pm ] |
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Quote: Heywood... She is Assistant manage, so if anything happened and went bad it would fuck my job up. Just to clarify The Innuendo's, teasing and all that, is that classed as C&F??? And escalating is the difference between being "friendly" and being more?? Much Appreciated http://www.tsbmag.com/2006/10/17/a-step ... scalation/ |
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