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Author:  looper [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:10 am ]
Post subject:  How to react when a girl playfully hits you?
Dumb ass question, but how do you react when a girl playfully hits you with their fist or some other object? Do you playfully hit back? Say, "hands off?"
"none of that" jokingly?
What do you do?
And also, is this a form of an IOI or shit test?
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to react when a girl playfully hits you?
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Dumb ass question, but how do you react when a girl playfully hits you with their fist or some other object? Do you playfully hit back? Say, "hands off?"
"none of that" jokingly?
What do you do?
And also, is this a form of an IOI?
That's a tad vague... Without context, it's hard to say. Way too many variables.

I've had playful hitting, and to some extent it's fine. It can be an overt attempt to flirt, which offers the reciprocal kino then escalation on your part...

But, if the chick is obnoxious, trying to friendzone or won't stop.... then make a bold statement... "I spank for less". If she does it again, she was warned - Smack her on the ass. But seriously, it's so difficult to tell based on the couple of sentences you provided...

As I think back to different women... I don't remember a time where I ever questioned whether she was sending an IOI or being a bitch - so I'm assuming you'll be able to properly discern as well.

Best,

RR
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:21 am ]
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Hit her back. HARD.

With your penis...
Author:  looper [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:23 am ]
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Hit her back. HARD.

With your penis...
I'm not trying to go back to jail, no thanks. :oops:
Author:  xJustin [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:26 am ]
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You can say nothing but just sit there and look back and forth between where she hit you and her eyes. Keep a knowing grin on your face.

Other ones i like:
"Hey i just washed this shirt"
"Hands off the merchandise"
"wow you hit like a girl"
"do that again and SEE WHAT HAPPENS" *she does it again*. *TACKLE HER AND TICKLE HER TO DEATH*
Author:  looper [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:28 am ]
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You can say nothing but just sit there and look back and forth between where she hit you and her eyes. Keep a knowing grin on your face.

Other ones i like:
"Hey i just washed this shirt"
"Hands off the merchandise"
"wow you hit like a girl"
this is what I wanted, thank you.
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:58 am ]
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"is that all you've got princess?"

Grab her back or swat her playfully, tickling works well too or simply grabbing her and throwing her over your shoulder and spinning her about (Warning some girls HATE this).
Author:  lolaskate [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 7:27 am ]
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Fall to the ground grabbing the wound, whilst fighting back tears.
Author:  Little Panda [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 9:46 am ]
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"Wow, that was almost as hard as my boner right now."

. . .

lol it doesn't really matter.

Sometimes I even exaggerate it by bending over in pain saying ' . . . You hit me right in the cancer!"

Not all girls think that's funny, it was just a random improvisation I had once.

And of course, it all depends on your relations with the girl. I've never used any of those mentioned above on a girl I just met 5 minutes ago.

On girl's you've just met, a simple 'Are you always this violent? :(' can do. No need to acknowledge it too much at all.
Author:  EddieFews [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 1:24 pm ]
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Hey dude, you have to learn to improvise if you want to be GOOD with women. You can't always rely on an answer you get from some post or forum; because then how does you're own distinct and unique personality begin to develop? Do you really want to be a makeup of 8-9 guys you talk to on some random forum? Especially since you have no idea who they are or what they're skill level is with women.

Try different things and see what works, just remember you will be being hit by a lot of women in your life so they're is plenty of room to work on this ;)
Author:  TheSeagull [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 3:34 pm ]
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on the one date where she was playfully hitting me, I playfully hit her back making sure to apply no strength at all, just touching her arm. and she reprimanded me about how girls should not be touched. so I let her hit me without hitting back for a while. and then went for the kiss :wink:
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 3:44 pm ]
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on the one date where she was playfully hitting me, I playfully hit her back making sure to apply no strength at all, just touching her arm. and she reprimanded me about how girls should not be touched. so I let her hit me without hitting back for a while. and then went for the kiss :wink:
Play hitting is a great way to segway into something sexual such as play fighting and into wrestling. Sometimes I'll make a 'threat'..."if you do that again I'm going to bite you" or pin her down, whatever. So much you can do once she starts hitting you see it as a great moment to kino but through role play ("didn't take you for the fighting type princes...let's GO!"). Might not want to throw her over your shoulder as I did once to this petite girl I was with as she ended up accidentally farting in my ear from squishing her tummy.
Author:  perception [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:05 pm ]
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on the one date where she was playfully hitting me, I playfully hit her back making sure to apply no strength at all, just touching her arm. and she reprimanded me about how girls should not be touched. so I let her hit me without hitting back for a while. and then went for the kiss :wink:
Play hitting is a great way to segway into something sexual such as play fighting and into wrestling. Sometimes I'll make a 'threat'..."if you do that again I'm going to bite you" or pin her down, whatever. So much you can do once she starts hitting you see it as a great moment to kino but through role play ("didn't take you for the fighting type princes...let's GO!"). Might not want to throw her over your shoulder as I did once to this petite girl I was with as she ended up accidentally farting in my ear from squishing her tummy.

LOL that sucks, you literally got shit on.
Author:  96Firebird [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:25 pm ]
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I used to smack their ass if they did it more than once. I used this way back in high school (I got one girl really good one time, made my hand tingle), and I guess I forgot about it recently. I'll have to start doing it again.
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:55 pm ]
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Playful hitting holds sexual undertones, don't take any behavior as unintentional (she may not be conscious of the WHY, but the motives are most undoubtedly sexual).
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