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| Author: | Kemwer [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 2:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | A girl at Art School |
Hey guys, first time posting on this forums I've been having a weird situation with this girl at my school HB9, she has a boyfriend and I met her a couple of months ago at a class we take together. Things started great, I'm naturally CF and I dont have much problems at creating attraction, plus as I said she has a boyfriend so I didn´t get my hopes up from the start, I just thought it good practice since she is pretty hot so I tried to be as comfortable as I could, I busted her balls, never aknowledged her hotness as many guys around her did and I generally had this attitude of making everything fun and light. After a while I started noticing what I think were IOI's like: she started looking for me at my other classes, once while wearing make-up and a nightdress she said were for a photoshoot she had earlier and didn´t have time to change (she's a model), she started touching my arms or my stomach (I'm in good shape luckily) and generally got more touchy and started standing closer when we talked, meanwhile I just acted cool and unfazed by anything she would do and just had a good time. Thing went on like this until last week when there was a party at my faculty which HB9 told me I had to go to and I got there a little late, I had been smoking weed which I dont usually do before going out but I had been at a friends birthday. When I got to the party a couple of friends of mine HB7's welcomed me and they started dancing with me, or next to me cause I didn´t feel like dancing, they were being playful and were kind of drunk, meanwhile HB9 which was hotter than ever was with her girlfriend dancing (no boyfriend around) She had seen me, I noticed, but was playing it cool, after a couple of minutes she "saw" me and came running to hug me, she and her girlfriend started dancing with me, I was trying but was too low energy when she got in front of me and started grinding against me , she was very high energy and and gave me this very sexual look, but I just stood there frozen, overthinking shit so she turned around and said she wanted to go to the dancefloor with me but I just said no , she and her girlfriend wanted to dance so they left, I stood there next to a friend while feeling stupid, tried not to stare at her who was generally being friendly and talking to a bunch of people including this guy who she talked to for like an hour, a group said they wanted to go to a bar and she and the guy went with them. A friend of mine who went to the bar said the guy tried everything but she just looked bored and afterwards they went their separate ways. This Monday I did the stupidest thing and said to HB9 and her girlfriend in a playful way that I had noticed they left with a group of guys and asked if they had a good time to which her friend laughed but she just gave me a bad look and said she was just talking. Right now I feel really confused and don´t know what to do guys, should I talk about the party? or just act as if nothing happened, or should I ask about all the IOI's she had been giving me and just be honest? or should I stop talking to her? help plz |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 3:20 am ] |
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2 words: LOST CAUSE. |
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| Author: | Kemwer [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:00 am ] |
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would you elaborate? I have to see her every other day and really dont know how to act |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:28 am ] |
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Listen man..it seems your new to this...I just....I don't know what I can say that would IMMEDIATELY snap you into an advanced reality. You just have to learn over time....and internalize concepts such as women are everywhere etc. Sure they seem logical, but deep down even you're having issues believing it because of this one good looking girl. Ideally, I would say - try to fuck her. You need not know ANY game on how to do this...but you definitely need to have been raised (nature vs nurture) with some set beliefs about what it is to be a man. If your mom raised you, chances are you've been emasculated to some degree. If your dad is dominant in the marriage, chances are he raised you on how to get women and you can kiss them. Generally speaking, BE YOURSELF. Kiss her when YOU want to. I'm dead serious. The moment your brain goes "what she did makes me want to kiss her" do it. But don't do it SOLELY based on looks. Having someone telling me "I JUST WANT TO LICK HER TITS NOW! SHUD I DO IT?!!" isn't logical. THINK WITH YOUR HEART - NOT YOUR DICK. PLEASE! WHAT IM SAYING IS: ESCALATE. Kiss the girl, RISK losing her for good. |
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| Author: | Kemwer [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 2:24 pm ] |
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hey thx for the reply, I kind of get what you are saying and have been reading your posts, would you mind explaining those beliefs about being a man that you talk about? I am new, that´s true, but this is a part of my life I really wanna get under control. Thx for the help |
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