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Author:  Keklal [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 6:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Did I read her wrong?
Hi, I'm confused...

So I met this girl (she's actually one my underlings). Definitely a 10, had all the guys drooling right from the start. I ignore her a bit, she starts talking to me, I do some light kino, hit her with a few negs. She mentions how I look like an actor, and how we should watch a DVD together sometime. This all very soon. I don't see her for a few days, the next time we meet she seems like she's missed me a lot, can't stop talking, etc...
She then mentions she might drop by the next night (I had a night shift the next night). She comes the next night, after a complete day, and stays from 2 to 5 in the morning (yes, I know, should have closed her right there and now, but couldn't, not with my other collaborators knowing, and that would have cost me my job), coming by train and leaving that late because trains don't run before that time just because I casually said "I'll see you tomorrow" the day before.

Afterwards she just adds me to facebook, messages me constantly, and gives me her phone number so we can plan the evening. By then I'm thinking I'm golden. So I call her, it goes well, etc...

The same evening she send me on FB messenger: "But on friday you come as a friend and leave as a friend okay.. ?"

I'm very confused at this point.

PS: I will write an introduction, sorry, I just really needed to get some advice on this one fast :)
Author:  Little Panda [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 6:53 pm ]
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I would treat it as a shit-test and play along if nothing.

Don't see it as a rejection until she physically rejects you once you make a move on her on friday. That text could have meant anything. It could even mean she just wants to be your friend. But don't treat it that way until you actually confront her sexually.

Don't give the text any value and just escalate as usual.

Unless you're genuinely worried about losing her as a friend lol.

And it would seem strange that she just wants to be friends after drooling after you for the last couple of days.
Author:  Versalis [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 6:57 pm ]
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She just doesn't want you expecting sex. Assuming the time out goes well, kiss her. Ignore whatever she said. She may have a boyfriend and just realized she's into you, so she's drawing lines.

Oh and if she does reject you after the physical approach, apologize genuinely and tell her you misread the moment and it won't happen again. One kiss is not a big deal unless you *both* make it one.
Author:  Keklal [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 7:07 pm ]
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Tbh it just put me off-balance because I mean... How many girls you barely (I really only did barely know her) come to see you at work, after an exhausting day, in the middle of the night, knowing that they WILL have to stay for 3 hours minimum since the next train is leaving at 5 while also knowing you have to do your job?
Author:  Little Panda [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 7:22 pm ]
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Tbh it just put me off-balance because I mean... How many girls you barely (I really only did barely know her) come to see you at work, after an exhausting day, in the middle of the night, knowing that they WILL have to stay for 3 hours minimum since the next train is leaving at 5 while also knowing you have to do your job?
Girls that crave for your dick do that.

The text never happened.

Go hard.
Author:  Keklal [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 7:34 pm ]
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Will do, and post a report.
Author:  silverito [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 8:05 pm ]
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Besides the fact that it came to your work did you get any other interest indicators? If besides that fact you would still think that she is into you I thinks its pretty safe to assume that and proceed like that text never happened :)
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 9:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did I read her wrong?
Quote:
Hi, I'm confused...

So I met this girl (she's actually one my underlings). Definitely a 10, had all the guys drooling right from the start. I ignore her a bit, she starts talking to me, I do some light kino, hit her with a few negs. She mentions how I look like an actor, and how we should watch a DVD together sometime. This all very soon. I don't see her for a few days, the next time we meet she seems like she's missed me a lot, can't stop talking, etc...
She then mentions she might drop by the next night (I had a night shift the next night). She comes the next night, after a complete day, and stays from 2 to 5 in the morning (yes, I know, should have closed her right there and now, but couldn't, not with my other collaborators knowing, and that would have cost me my job), coming by train and leaving that late because trains don't run before that time just because I casually said "I'll see you tomorrow" the day before.

Afterwards she just adds me to facebook, messages me constantly, and gives me her phone number so we can plan the evening. By then I'm thinking I'm golden. So I call her, it goes well, etc...

The same evening she send me on FB messenger: "But on friday you come as a friend and leave as a friend okay.. ?"

I'm very confused at this point.

PS: I will write an introduction, sorry, I just really needed to get some advice on this one fast :)
What happen the night she was at you're house?

and how did you reply to that text?

I would of went with " haha what did you think it would be? :)" that would of confused the hell out of her.
Author:  Keklal [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 2:43 am ]
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My first reaction was to simply ignore the comment. She wouldn't let go of it, so I just told her ok, and figured it didn't matter. Once we're alone I'll go from there.
Author:  Versalis [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 3:15 pm ]
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how did things go?
Author:  debovnik [ Mon Jun 11, 2012 5:47 pm ]
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when she was at your place, did you escalate?

Play along with what she says, then escalate when with her

make good eye contact. lick your lips when looking at her
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