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| Author: | who8dapie [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 5:25 am ] |
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Alright guys, I number closed this girl couple of days ago and we seemed to have a great conversation so I texted her that same days latter in the evening. We managed to have a small talk and ended the convesation. Next day again small talk, she was busy with some house work. So the third day I decided not to text or call her just so I dont show much interest. But on the forth day I texted and called her, didnt get a reply. Not sure if shes flaking or just busy with stuff. My guess is shes a little busy but not 100% intrested because when we texted she took a while to reply but she was laughing and seems to be enjoying herself Anyways I think I should give her a day or two and text her again to see if she responds. Could you guys tell me what i could say to her to get her attention again and spark up an conversation again. |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 6:42 am ] |
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Girl lost interest or is not feeling emotions IN THE MOMENT. |
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| Author: | who8dapie [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 8:40 pm ] |
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ye I realize that, but any tips on what I can say to see if she`s intrested and replies. If not on to the next one. |
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| Author: | Entourages [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 9:11 pm ] |
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Respike attraction, make the convo more light hearted, I usually text a girl about fighting the queen from narnia, or how I think I am pregnant and she is the mother, or kangaroos are getting their revenge and fighting off american soldiers with sticks stones and a might fine karate kick. |
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| Author: | Matrimcauthon77 [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 9:48 pm ] |
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Sounds like there's a good chance she lost interest. As a general rule, only stay in conversations as long as they're actually interesting to you. If you stay longer, it looks like you're just trying to stick around to keep her talking to you. If it's constantly interesting, you can talk for days straight. Most of the time though, it's not. Agreed to try a respike. Text her an interesting/funny thing like the ones Raphael gave you. Or you can wait a few days and invite her to hang out with you and your friends (provided you're doing something social and entertaining). Demonstrating a little social dominance does a lot to spark attraction again. |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 9:51 pm ] |
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Yea...not much you can say or do over the phone. I find phone game incredibly weak for a woman who has lost interest. It's a stairway to heaven. |
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| Author: | who8dapie [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 11:08 pm ] |
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hows..What sort of trouble are you causing, heard someone broke in at the zoo and dressed all the animals in pink dresses...(or something along those lines because she works at a clothing store) I know I should just let it go but since I am new to the games and this was my first N close of HB9 its hard to see it go down hill after 2 days. Thanks for the replies tho. |
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| Author: | Craig1919 [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 11:28 pm ] |
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At a glance i'd say your problem is the small talk, talk about something interesting. Not "its sunny today" Talk to her like she's one of your friends but while flirting with her. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 12:11 am ] |
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Yes, small talk is probably not a good call. You need to make short, fun calls. And you also need to understand that most numbers you get do not convert. When a woman gives you her number, she's more likely to be thinking of you as a potential "just friend" than a potential lover. This likelihood grows the longer it is between your physical encounter. Something I'm going to tell you that you can do or not do. It basically goes against most of the mainstream PUA guru wisdom, but phone numbers are kind of worthless. Granted, they're better than *nothing* but not by a whole lot. I think I get maybe a 1/8 conversion on numbers and that's not really a bad average. You are much, much better off getting as close to this girl as possible when you meet and then getting her out with you physically as soon as possible. If she says she's too busy in the next two days, 4/5 of the time, she's lying and just isn't all that into you. So one of my top pieces of advise for you is drop "# close" from your mind. Yes, get numbers, but grasp that #s are more like a last resort, rather than something you should be coveting. |
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