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| Author: | hairypua [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 7:41 pm ] |
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Okay so over the last 2 years i've been trying to use PUA to improve my natural game. I just moved back in with my mom in a small ass town this week and it just so happens that theres a big ass fiesta/festival this weekend. I figured it'd be the perfect place to meet new friends and get some numbers... Okay so uh if you could give me corrections on my method, that'd be awesome. To start things off, i didnt sleep last night. I got there at around 6/7 and the first 4 sets i approached: they either put up their bitch shields or had boyfriends or were under 18 (more than 50% of the attractive girls were still in high school -.-). All failures. I was smoking a stoge off to the side and just when i was starting to give up hope when i noticed a 10 talking to 2 younger guys and her chubby female friend. I sat down at the steps near them and of course the fat girl was drawn to me and asked if she could sit beside me. I told her of course and was really nice to her, not to be confused with flirting, however i was nice and did talk with her. After about 5 mins i'd told her i was new to town and wanted to meet new friends, as planned she introduced me to the 10 and the guys, after introducing myself to the 10 she was a bit distant and had her bitch shield up. Ugly(U) girl begins calling all her other hot ass friends over to me, introducing me. I gave them all my attention and the 10 soon got jealous and unfortunately left. It was okay though, she continued introducing me to hot friend after hot friend after hot family member. After maybe 30 mins my charm started to fade, i was really tired and couldnt keep it up. Her friends [ranging from 6-10) started to drift off. I asked if any of her friends were single, she pointed me to a 17 year old and a 10. I began talking to the 2nd 10 who i was lightweight gaming, we had a bit in common(psychology and music) and just shot the shit for a little bit. I wanted to neg her because she seemed distant(maybe a psuedo-bitchshield or shy), even while immersed in conversation, but i couldn't find anything wrong with her. After Ugirl told me that the 10#2 was smart(which i doubt) i told this 10 that i was a sapiosexual and explained that that meant i im hella into intelligent girls. It was kind of a shit test on my part, however she didnt display any intelligence purposefully and seemed a little bit creeped out. Anyways i was so tired and my game was in the gutters, i got the Ugirl's number and said me and her should hang out tomorrow at the fiesta again. I asked the 10 if she'd be there and she said she would, i told her i'd see her there and left it there. I don't think i left any lasting impression and the 10 will probably forget my name. I'll try to salvage the situation tomorrow when i'm not so wiped out. I'm gonna try to stay close to this ugly girl and use her to get closer to her hott ass friends. Hopefully you can give me some general advice on how to do so - mainly just that one 10 is all i'm worried about. Oh yeah - sorta irrelevant but i did take a shot with one of her friends at some point and i wasn't only tired but buzzed throughout this ordeal. I'm also sorta afraid Ugirl is mistaking my kindness/friendlyness for being a flirt. Not only do i gotta fix things with/game the 10 who i was talking to about psychology but at the same time i gotta make sure this Ugirl knows i'm not coming onto her and i just wanna be friends without making her mad and losing my ties to her friends. Just to clear up any confusion in my post, there were 2 tens, the first left early off and the second showed up a little bit later. Edit: Can't believe this didnt post last night for whatever reason. UGH probably wont get any help before i leave in an hour or so |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 8:01 pm ] |
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My first impression is that you spent way to much effort caring how the ugly girl felt about you. Secondly, it seems you spent to much tike being "gamey" and not enough time having fun and creating a connection. |
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| Author: | hairypua [ Sun Jun 03, 2012 9:04 pm ] |
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Thanks man. I'm somewhat curious what you think of the method though --- Befriending the ugly girls to get close to the hot ones. It's fairly new to me, my stepdad suggested i try being nice to the ugly one so they won't cockblock. I have another routine that i like to use where i just walk up to any random girl/group of girls and ask them for a cigarette and i say "thanks, well the least i can do is give you my company while i smoke this"(or something like that) and i try to create a connection while the cig is still burning. If there's a connection i'll stay until i can number close/more. Sometimes i can get a number before im even done with my stoge. |
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| Author: | Pinocchio [ Sun Jun 03, 2012 9:46 pm ] |
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I was at a festival a few months back. I got really drunk and decided I wanted to get laid. First hot girl I hit on I just said "you look fucking amazing". Can't remember what I said after that but within' 20-30 seconds we were kissing, and within 20 minutes we were back at my tent. Lessons learned: sex is normal, game is easy, go for what you want, be honest, have fun. Quote: Thanks man. I'm somewhat curious what you think of the method though --- Befriending the ugly girls to get close to the hot ones. It's fairly new to me, my stepdad suggested i try being nice to the ugly one so they won't cockblock.
I know this wasn't addressed to me but I'll give you my take of things just to contribute.My view is that you should be friendly to everyone. You don't have to go around befriending everyone, but just treat everyone with common respect. It's not that you have to particularly win over her friends, you just gotta be a guy that she knows her friends wont judge her for being with. If they're there, acknowledge them, treat them with respect, have a laugh. Be charming, but don't waste time. If you like that girl, and you've integrity, it would seem unnatural to ignore her and speak to the friends. Girls know when guys do this, or else they get bored. Just be cool enough to them that they don't dislike you. Quote: I have another routine that i like to use where i just walk up to any random girl/group of girls and ask them for a cigarette and i say "thanks, well the least i can do is give you my company while i smoke this"(or something like that) and i try to create a connection while the cig is still burning. If there's a connection i'll stay until i can number close/more. Sometimes i can get a number before im even done with my stoge.
Personally, I would never do this. Maybe certain personalities can pull it off, but I wouldn't get away with it. It's asking them for something, sucking value, from people you don't know. Already you're the charity. Next, you're telling them you're going to stay. If you owe them anything, it's that you wont hang around and potentially annoy them.They don't know you're a cool guy so early in the interaction. What you gotta do is give them space and then try get them to want you to stay. |
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