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Author:  Ptown [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 10:56 pm ]
Post subject:  How do i recover from this?
So i met this jewish girl. a bit shy, and only slept with one guy.

Within 24hrs of meeting her i was making out with her in a public street at night and also got to the point of fingering her and making her cum. This girl was a 10 for me and i loved everything about her and had told her this that i really liked her... This was before we started making out.
She had told me this was completely out of her comfort zone and she had never done something like this before. To which i responded to and explained being out of your comfort zone is good.

ANYWAY. . Next day i get a msg saying that she wants to be sensitive to what i said, is going through a tough breakup, and still very in love with someone. Long story short she doesnt want to meet again and needs her space for now.

This situation is so strange to me.. its the first time ive told a girl genuinely how i feel and now its just backfired in my face. Dont know what to do? I can provide more info if needed.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 11:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do i recover from this?
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So i met this jewish girl. a bit shy, and only slept with one guy.

Within 24hrs of meeting her i was making out with her in a public street at night and also got to the point of fingering her and making her cum. This girl was a 10 for me and i loved everything about her and had told her this that i really liked her... This was before we started making out.
She had told me this was completely out of her comfort zone and she had never done something like this before. To which i responded to and explained being out of your comfort zone is good.

ANYWAY. . Next day i get a msg saying that she wants to be sensitive to what i said, is going through a tough breakup, and still very in love with someone. Long story short she doesnt want to meet again and needs her space for now.

This situation is so strange to me.. its the first time ive told a girl genuinely how i feel and now its just backfired in my face. Dont know what to do? I can provide more info if needed.
Just reply: that's cool, I had fun anyway! I'm sure you'll work it out, sounds like he's the one for you! :)

Leave it at that. ...wait it out, chase other girls while you do! it will give you a 50/50 chance she'll call! anything else will be 0 chance!

I'm going to snag some booty....

good luck Bro
Author:  IwantEasyLove [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 12:41 am ]
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She probably felt uncomfortable about what she did and now she is pysching herself out of talking to you. This happens time and time again when a woman regrets what she did....

I don't like how you said "being out of your comfort zone is good" The way you typed it sounds insensitive and your mistake could very well have been after you did everything you did not make her feel uncomfortbale. See this is the thing...getting out of your comfortzone is like swimming up stream or climbing a mountain. There is so much inner force working against you that if you lose the least bit of resolve you will get taken with the current or forced back down to the ground by gravity....

The situation could very well be a lost cause already.

Also, [b]never ever, never ever, ever ever ever! spill your guts . Don't confess your undyin love to a woman you just met. It puts to much pressure on her and it cheapens your value, she's not wondering whether she can have you. Its just intimidating...to much baggage. Can a girl just have fun? Can a girl just have fun?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQoaDrUxL1I

So these are your two lessons:
#1 Don't spill your guts
#2 Girls Just wanna have fun


How can you salvage this situation, as I am sure you want to desperately get her back on a date, smh.

What would I do? I would make fun of the situation. Nothing like laughter to cure awkwardness.

I've never used this line, but I have thought about it...
"oh thats cool...I'll never ask you out on a date anyway because I would make you cum! :p "[/b]
Author:  IwantEasyLove [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 12:45 am ]
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When you confess your feelings to a woman you just met its like trapping an animal in a corner. How would you like it if a woman did this to you? ?
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 1:02 am ]
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Just reply: that's cool, I had fun anyway! I'm sure you'll work it out, sounds like he's the one for you! Smile

Leave it at that. ...wait it out, chase other girls while you do! it will give you a 50/50 chance she'll call! anything else will be 0 chance!

I'm going to snag some booty....

Probably about the best thing you can do. I would only add that I would hit her up in a few weeks with an innocuous ping text if she doesn't get at you first.

the Braddock style fake mass text is pretty good "pool party and Mandys house tonight, dont forget to not bring your swim suit." If she responds re-engage.
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 5:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do i recover from this?
Quote:
So i met this jewish girl. a bit shy, and only slept with one guy.

Within 24hrs of meeting her i was making out with her in a public street at night and also got to the point of fingering her and making her cum. This girl was a 10 for me and i loved everything about her and had told her this that i really liked her... This was before we started making out.
She had told me this was completely out of her comfort zone and she had never done something like this before. To which i responded to and explained being out of your comfort zone is good.

ANYWAY. . Next day i get a msg saying that she wants to be sensitive to what i said, is going through a tough breakup, and still very in love with someone. Long story short she doesnt want to meet again and needs her space for now.

This situation is so strange to me.. its the first time ive told a girl genuinely how i feel and now its just backfired in my face. Dont know what to do? I can provide more info if needed.
Sometimes saying LESS is more, let this be a lesson to you. Never reveal your full hand to a girl, especially so early as it infers neediness and puts her under uneeded pressure (as you did).

There is however hope little buddy. Tell her in a humble way that you had misspoke and that there's no reason the two of you cant hangout as friends. That's it, just shut the fuck up after.
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