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| Author: | berg101 [ Wed May 30, 2012 8:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | I get attached far too easily! |
Hi Guys! Basically the problem that I always seem to have is that I get attached to girls far too easily. I need to know how to prevent myself from become obsessed by one girl, when I do this I find myself over analyzing everything, text messages, phone calls etc. Is there a sure fire way to stop being this way? Any help would be great. Thanks in advance. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Wed May 30, 2012 11:10 am ] |
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Date multiple women. Or actually get a life and have somethings going for you. I'm attached to my studies and my career so I couldn't possibly be too attached to one girl because my attention is divided in 3. |
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| Author: | TheAccountant [ Wed May 30, 2012 2:17 pm ] |
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I've been there... After realizing how draining that can be you start to understand it really isn't worth it. I think it can come off as desperate and needy. Like the poster above said, divide your time. Throw yourself into a hobby, start to explore the world around you more...you'll find out that there are plenty of woman out there, part of that "obsession" is probably due to the fact that you're so afraid to lose "her" (if you are seeing someone now). Even though woman are more independent now they still look to man to be the leader of a relationship, allowing yourself to come off like that will turn a lot of woman off.... -TA |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Wed May 30, 2012 3:04 pm ] |
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It's funny because inexperience is the reason for why this happens to you and any other beginner. And the irony is that the only way to 'solve' this is by, in fact, getting experience. So continue dating more and more women. Time is the only solution. |
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| Author: | Sebastion Reef [ Wed May 30, 2012 3:11 pm ] |
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Keep yourself busy with friends and your career. Go out and meet other women its the easiest way to get over the woman your obsessing about. If you really can't get a girl out of your head then maybe stop obsessing and get with her the right way. Your coming across as needy and clingy when you text or phone too much. Don't be such a nice guy all the time. |
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