Well, you should care more about what you want than what others want. Not telling not to give a fuck about what she wants or whatever, but also don't let her lead you. Instead you lead her mate
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| Author: | danielzed [ Tue May 29, 2012 10:18 pm ] |
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I'll keep this quick. Girlfriend and I dating for 6 months and it's all pretty much good (I just posted another question if you want more details). We have a long history of long distance. Most of our relationship is long distance actually. When we met, I had to leave within a month out of the country for 4 months due to work. We weren't planning on it, but we ended up doing the long distance and it worked out quite well. For the past month we live closer to each other. Separate cities but spend the weekends together. Last weekend, for the whole time, we didn't engage in any sexual activities. She was still affectionate/cuddly, just nothing sexual. At the beginning of the weekend she did tell me she is close to her period. And overall I think she has been lately a bit conscious of her body (she's still super fit... but you know girls). She got a gym membership today which makes me think that may be it. Now really, I can do a weekend with no sex. I just don't want it to turn into a regular thing. Especially since we have so much distance, I don't want to become pen pals. My question is, how should I deal with this? I'm seeing her again next weekend. Am I just over thinking and ignore it for now until it happens again? Freeze her out a bit? Withhold sex from her next time she initiates (stating I'm tired or w/e)? |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Tue May 29, 2012 10:26 pm ] |
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This will probably be a big deal if you make it one. Do you communicate openly? Did you try to initiate anything sexual? Go sexual on her next weekend. |
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| Author: | KimPa [ Tue May 29, 2012 10:29 pm ] |
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Well, your post says it all.. She didn't do, SHE SHE SHE.. Why don't you man up and start kissing her and seducing her? Stop expecting her to start the sexual act, and you start it instead.. OR she is probably going to break up with you soon because she found someone else.. Who knows? If you can't have any sexual acts with your gf then you are in a really shitty situation bud. |
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| Author: | danielzed [ Tue May 29, 2012 10:31 pm ] |
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We do communicate very openly. I didn't really bring this up though (I don't want to give her the power of me complaining about not getting any). I sort of initiated? She seemed just not really into it so I didn't try very much. She seemed in more of an accepting mood than actually wanting it to happen. |
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| Author: | KimPa [ Tue May 29, 2012 10:36 pm ] |
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Well, you should care more about what you want than what others want. Not telling not to give a fuck about what she wants or whatever, but also don't let her lead you. Instead you lead her mate
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Tue May 29, 2012 11:47 pm ] |
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Quote: Instead you lead her mate
This. You need to lead dude.
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