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Author:  Criss hell [ Tue May 29, 2012 6:03 am ]
Post subject:  lots of IOIs -get # in bar -not enough rapport-next move?

Hi guys,
I've seen this hb for a year in college and never had the chance to open her. She gave me so many IOI's.
So last night I saw her in a bar and I opened her finally.She was asking me so many questions like where I am from , my major and She tried to prove herself.
But the bar was so loud and she was with some guys. So I was not comfortable talking to her for long time the whole conversation was like 4 mins.
I asked her her number to be in touch and she gave it to me.As it was suggested in this forum , later that night I texted her " It was nice seeing you again and have good night"
I didn't get any answer but I think that's ok since I got same behaviour from other hbs who later answered my texts.
So since I just have her number and we didn't talk enough. I have no idea what I should do next.
The only thing is that she told me she has taken summer courses in college and I told her maybe I see her in college.
I have some other similar cases like , and I don't know how to handle these situation.
Please help me how to get further with this hb.
Thank you

Author:  agentprovocateur [ Tue May 29, 2012 6:07 am ]
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get her out on a date

"Hey let's go do this weekend"

Author:  Criss hell [ Tue May 29, 2012 6:38 am ]
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Quote:
get her out on a date

"Hey let's go do this weekend"
I wanted to do that . But It sounds weird and needy to me.We just talked for like 4 mins and besides she didn't respond me back.It not a bad sign but if she had responded me back ,I would definitely ask her out.
So I think I should go slower. Isn't that right?

Author:  agentprovocateur [ Tue May 29, 2012 6:44 am ]
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Quote:
Quote:
get her out on a date

"Hey let's go do this weekend"
I wanted to do that . But It sounds weird and needy to me.We just talked for like 4 mins and besides she didn't respond me back.It not a bad sign but if she had responded me back ,I would definitely ask her out.
So I think I should go slower. Isn't that right?
its actually quite the opposite

women can often sniff-out when a guy is interested but too scared to ask them out; they may find this cute for a moment or two but then find it annoying and move on

Slower? Than what, molasses up a hill?

You finding all these excuses NOT to ask her out sounds like microavoidance on your part.

Author:  Criss hell [ Tue May 29, 2012 6:57 am ]
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I was thinking of asking her schedule in school and say oh yeah I am in school on that day let's meet up in school. Something like that.
Also, this hb is a little bitchy. I don't want to show weakness.
How does it sound?

Author:  rhythmic02 [ Tue May 29, 2012 11:02 am ]
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Stop overanalyzing and just do it. Make the bold move.

quote="PursuitHappiness"]I was thinking of asking her schedule in school and say oh yeah I am in school on that day let's meet up in school. Something like that.
Also, this hb is a little bitchy. I don't want to show weakness.
How does it sound?[/quote]

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