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Author:  startinglife [ Fri May 25, 2012 4:39 pm ]
Post subject:  she likes me but...LOGISTICS!

I started as a server a month ago and I'm interested in one of my coworkers. She gives IOIs and comfort is building, but I'm having trouble escalating physically and seducing. Here are the problems...

1)I currently live with my parents
2)I can't drive (license suspended) so I can't take her out anywhere!!!
3)I can't really physically escalate at work! No more than side hugs and playful hitting

it's hard with no logistics and no driving...any ideas?

Author:  detox75 [ Fri May 25, 2012 5:30 pm ]
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tell her to meet you at your friends house/apt for a beer, tell your friend to bail when you give him the hi sign and commence to escalate.

Or, Keep building comfort over time and dont escalate and she will make a nice buddy.

Author:  agentprovocateur [ Fri May 25, 2012 5:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: she likes me but...LOGISTICS!

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I started as a server a month ago and I'm interested in one of my coworkers. She gives IOIs and comfort is building, but I'm having trouble escalating physically and seducing. Here are the problems...

1)I currently live with my parents

Do you think you'd be the first guy on the face of the planet to date somebody while living at your folks place? Living arrangement is temporary, while you are working towards building an attractive lifestyle for YOURSELF frame.


2)I can't drive (license suspended) so I can't take her out anywhere!!!

Take a bus, or better yet a cab. Or hey, go meet her someplace central where the two of you can go eat and walk around after. Once the date is over, hail a cab and take her home.


3)I can't really physically escalate at work! No more than side hugs and playful hitting

Be creative, develop your own flirtatious language only the 2 of you understand. Communicate to her through a glance or glare (this can be fun to do - wince at her disapprovingly when she fucks up just to break her balls a bit, for example). As she walks by, take her hand keeping yours close to your body and pull her in for a second - point is you can kino her while working and not have everyone else notice.

You've allowed yourself to get caught up in 'logistics' when your focus should be on making her feel good around you and setting up dates.

it's hard with no logistics and no driving...any ideas?

Author:  Crypto [ Fri May 25, 2012 6:09 pm ]
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Dude, the girl is not going to be against taking a walk with you is she? Meet her at some designated spot and take a walk together! If she likes you, then she wont have a real problem with the logistics part of the deal...

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