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| Author: | Consequences_ [ Fri May 25, 2012 2:22 am ] |
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I've been at my current job for over a year. Great Job with really good pay. The only crappy part is I'm away from home 6-8 weeks at a time and only get a week or so home before I go back to work for another tour. Most of my pickup is done in bars while I'm away at work so I never really consider any of my girls as potential partners. I met a girl though that I'm super interested in while I was home on vacation. I want to see what can become of our relationship. I try to temper my enthusiasm but I haven't had this kind of connection with a woman for quite some time. The issue is, I'm gone alot. I would love to date her, but because of work and the distance I'm afraid I may be jumping into a relationship that is setup to fail straight from the get go. General thoughts on long distance relationships? Bad idea or seize the moment? |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Fri May 25, 2012 9:18 am ] |
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I've tried long distance relationship and it sucked. I know plenty of people who couldn't make it either. However I know one couple that has been doing quite well. They see each other about once a week or two weeks. It's really up to the people involved, and how strong that connection is. If I were you I wouldn't try but only because I know that it didn't work for me. Instead I suggest you try it and get first hand experience about what it is like to be in such a relationship. You can learn lots of things from it, and maybe when it is time for you to get married, and a situation like this occurs, this experience will help you manage things better. |
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| Author: | Consequences_ [ Sat May 26, 2012 5:05 pm ] |
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Quote: I've tried long distance relationship and it sucked. I know plenty of people who couldn't make it either. However I know one couple that has been doing quite well. They see each other about once a week or two weeks. It's really up to the people involved, and how strong that connection is. If I were you I wouldn't try but only because I know that it didn't work for me. Instead I suggest you try it and get first hand experience about what it is like to be in such a relationship. You can learn lots of things from it, and maybe when it is time for you to get married, and a situation like this occurs, this experience will help you manage things better.
Thanks for the response. Figured I'd give it a try. My thought process is that theres no garuntee's that I will always be home. So if she can deal with it now, she can deal with it later on in the relationship.
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Sat May 26, 2012 8:53 pm ] |
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Good luck, bro! |
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