I used to have quite a bit of confidence with women, if I knew that they liked me I would ask them out, since I split up from my ex I have lost confidence and hated women, now, I like this girl in work, the thing is that I have asked one or two others out in work before, one acted snooty and horrible to me after and the other said yes then cancelled.
I have asked a girl for a number once in my whole life, she ran away with her friends, I thoughtshe liked me but she was just trying to get something free from me.
Don;t get me wrong, when I feel confident women go coy, embaressed, look at the floor, heck Ieven made a police woman look down whilst she smiled just because I said "good evening", so I know that it is to do with confidence and presentation of body langauge and eye contact.
Anyway, this girl in work I like, I have tested her without saying a lot, I have half-complimented her, it wasn't even a compliment, I just asked if there was a fan behind the counter as I can see her hair blowing in the wind, she responded with a smile and a really happy/embaressed look.
Another time I passed her and said "hey" she really smiled at me whilst pushing her hair back and replied.
I have made small talk with her and she stands there and talks to me and seems happy.
When ever I see her and tell her to "havea nice evening" as she is leaving work she always straight away makes constant eye contact with me with a big smile whilst replying.
I acted aloof once to her whilst her friend was talking to me, just to test her, she was standing and didn;t know where to look, she seemed awqward then all of a sudden she kind of jolted and promplty put her hands down and changed her stance.
My question is, do women like to be woooed or asked out straight away, like in my case, I am not going to ever be good at wooing any time soon
, will it work if I just ask her to come out for a drink or her number? what would your advice be?