I would strongly suggest ignoring girls right now. You need to get other things figured out first. (Maybe not ignore, just don't focus on it)
You just graduated university, so hopefully you can use that to your advantage to land some kind of job. It doesn't have to be your dream job, just anything to start saving up money. I think this should be your top priority. While you are pursuing a job, I'd suggest reading up on a variety of different topics that interest you. This makes you more of a well-rounded person, and more knowledgeable. I shouldn't have to say that this is an aspect that will come in hand in all areas of life, not just pick up.
Also start going to the gym. Don't do it just to get muscular or huge, but to maintain a healthy lifestyle. When things just aren't going your way, you can always hit the gym, and push your body to run just one more lap or lift one more rep. It is a great confidence boost, and will serve you for the rest of your life, if you keep it up.
Once you have a solid job down and some income, you can start working on other plans, such as getting your own place, building a new wardrobe, and going out making friends. Eventually you'll have enough money saved up and hopefully a better resume, so move out to a city, find a better job and then find some ladies.
I'd bet if you did all this, the ladies would find you
Just remember, nothing happens over night. Never get down on yourself if you fail to see immediate results. This is all a slow learning process. You are like a piece of chicken right now. If you rush out, you are just gonna burn it and who wants a burnt piece of chicken? If you take it nice and slow with a solid game plan, you're gonna be the juiciest, best damn piece of chicken any girl will ever taste!
Good Luck!