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I want to know what the best material for building attraction is and what parts make up attraction.
For example is it disqualification, kino escalation, rapport, comfort building,DHV stories, negs, C&F, push-pull, ESP routines, qualifications, fluff talk, freeze outs, or jealousy tactics I should focus on more?
Which contributes the most to building attraction?
I basically want a step by step method for building attraction kinda like vin di carlo's escalation ladder breaking down the stages.
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ASK.For example is it disqualification, kino escalation, rapport, comfort building,DHV stories, negs, C&F, push-pull, ESP routines, qualifications, fluff talk, freeze outs, or jealousy tactics I should focus on more?
Which contributes the most to building attraction?
I basically want a step by step method for building attraction kinda like vin di carlo's escalation ladder breaking down the stages.
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When I started sarging relentlessly... I would always throw out this line: "You're obviously hit on by hundreds of men... why me?" Ask as if you already know the answer - look her in the eyes and smile, if you don't you can come across like a tool. I don't fucking ever come across like a tool. ALWAYS know who you are and what you bring to the table - then project that.
Then LISTEN to her answer. If you think it's a fluff answer - dig deeper and challenge her. Call her out "Bullshit, way too vague... come on dig deeper..." Keep smiling. Show you're not afraid of intellectual debate, and that you'll hold her accountable - ALL OF WHICH builds attraction while you're learning her answer to the same question...
If you do this comfortbaly and with true concern - you'll get all the answers you need, and you'll better establish a comfort level to escalate and fuck her later (You can have a 1/2 hour conversation simply on this. Tell her 'why her' - be cocky, neg if she's a 9... Over time, you'll actually be able to "interview" a chick during the date so you can use that same shit (refined though) the next time out.
Intelligence is your friend, gather as much as you can!
I know my game. It works for me. I can't offer you the golden ticket, nobody has it. Myster, Tyler, Matador, Style, RJ, David D..... they all have been shot down. They just figured out what works for them.
What I suggest is learning ALL of it - every last thing you can... then you'll become better equipped to incorporate a hybrid approach that encapsulates all you're familiar/comfortable with... Once you do this - it's literally YOUR OWN game.
Best,
RR