Hey man, welcome to the forum. You are in the right area to post this too!

In my experience it's great to start to find out whether she feels the same, and a great way to do that is by using qualification loops.

Now qualification loops are when you ask her a question and if she says yes then its a step forward, no and a step back. So if you asked her if she's an adventurous person and she says yes... then next time she says she doesn't want to do something you can say 'well you said you're adventurous earlier... and if she says... well yeah... umm... you can say that you didn't think she was a lier.

Thats an example you can do it with anything.

I use it all the time, it's a way of getting what you want and it's very powerful so only use it when necessary and for good cause.

With you maybe you should ask 'Would you say you're good at compromising for the greater good' you know just try and go deep for a tad

Hope i've helped you bud!